O/T - Unprotected Sex

Back in my day we'd take things really slow by just getting nekkid and sitting on the bed beside each other.  We'd point at the various "parts" on each other and say, "When we get married Imma touch that and that and that..."  Then we'd move on to kissing so long until we could tell whether or not the other person was an avid brusher of their teeth or not. 

ROTFLMAO, I remember those days.

 Hmmm............. At what point? The point that she gets on some Birth Control,lol.....  If shes on it already, ummm........Honestly when ever I feel as if I can trust her with my body, and when our relationship reaches the point where I feel as if I can live with the consequences of the outcome of us being unprotected....... But Ive definitely gotten caught up in the moment before, the worst thing somebody can do is TELL ME to *** inside of them, because that starts a launch sequence that cant be stopped!

On birth control since I was 19...27 years old, getting migraines doc changes my prescription tells me I will be fine--same script but lower dosage...left for Mexico on a cruise and came back with more than a bottle of tequila and t-shirt.

He's now in kindergarten.

At what point in your relationship do you have unprotected sex?  When all background checks are completed and all medical conditions disclosed and verified, pills are popped and all wires are snipped.  LOL
There are no guarantees in life.  Its a gamble regardless, thats just the risk you take when you engage in sexual activities.  Condoms break and birth control can fail.  The only absolute guarantee of no pregnancy and no diseases is complete abstinence including kissing.  The only thing you can do is trust your partner and pray as you roll the dice and hop in the sack. 

Is it mutual consent? Absolutely

Do you consider the consequences of your actions or do you get caught up in the moment? Both.

^5 I completely agree

Glad I'm old enough to say didn't get it on until Marriage, was to DAM* afraid of the parents.
Back then all you had to be afraid of was the parents having a baby and a few minus dieases that pencillien(SP?) did the work.  AND know baby mommy drama either.  LOOOONNNNNGGGGGG time ago 35 years.

We were together for 2 months.

He wanted to go bareback sooner but I was having none of that!  His control in the heat of the moment built up a whole lot of good will on my part. At the 2 month mark, we went and got swabbed together and sat and held hands while we waited for the results.  After we both got our all clears, we went to Motel 6 and tore that place down!  (Too far to go home lol)

I always thought of the consequences, I have had to many friends die slowly and painfully of AIDS.

I haven't read all of the other responses but I would say if you are not my husband never is time to have unprotected sex.  There is waayyyy too much out there to be taking unnecessary chances with your life.

Husbands cheat also and you have alot of them in the closet with the same sex. Married or not Married a man will and so will a woman. But I understand where you ae coing from.

Hey Cookie..been there done most of it! (for real for real)

I believe as two consenting adults(well in my past experiences) whatever decsisions we make behind CLOSED doors whether good, bad,  or indifferent...just be ready to pay the price for the cost for  sex..whether it be "unplanned pregnancy", disease(God fordbid), etc etc....

Hate to say but nowadays it ain't even a "single" thing...with all the new "lifestyles"...even more reason to be careful...not condemning anybody but it is what it is!

Mutual Consent should be a MUST!

Consequences or results as we know them come after our actions..if only we would make better decisions.

That is my lil' contribution