O/T - Unprotected Sex
On March 10, 2009 at 6:04 PM Pacific Time, Mrs.Royalty wrote:
Cookie, I have told my children, 
"Never get caught slippin on yo pimpin"... get with the wrong person you go to the doctor drippin... 
One night of pleasure you call it chillin... Now yo ass at the clinic needin 10 days of penicillin... 
To me it's JUST like getting candy on Halloween... If it doesn't have a wrapper on it... YOU BET NOT EAT IT...
Never mutual... I love myself, I'm a QUEEN and he may not understand it... But the brutha puttin a comdemn on cause a sista like me demandin it...
Never get caught up in the moment... I don't care how sexy or how fine the brutha may be...
He may have a bad swagg, nice car a good JOB but lay down with him and now YOU got HIV...
HELL TO THE NAWL!!! GREAT POST!!
, and VONDA you wonder why I love yo crazy ass the way I do!!!!!! LMAO I needed that laugh!!!!! You are always able to cheer me up!!!! I am in the midst of the worst storm emotionally, and you help me deal with it soo much easier!!! THANK YOU!!!
"STOP MAKING EXCUSES, AND MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!!!!
"I WOULD RATHER HAVE THE BLESSER THAN THE BLESSINGS CAUSE WITH HIM I HAVE EVERYTHING."
"MAKE SURE YOU SPEAK SUCCESS FOR YOUR WLS INTO EXISTENCE EVERYDAY."
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on 3/10/09 11:10 am
on 3/10/09 11:10 am
Good question Cookie. I don't have a hard and fast rule. I can say I have never gotten lost in the heat of the moment, I've talked about exclusivity/monogomy with my boyfriends those times there was unprotected sex. I'm not one that 'dates' , I'm usually in a serious relationship or just okay being single. I am prepared to accept the consequences of my actions though.
Less than a month.......yea...we'll go with that LOL. We had a date to get tested together, got our swab on, then got the results and went to dinner. Ate REAL fast and back to the house! We were engaged 5 months later.
~Shani~
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I may not be perfect but skip the heat of the moment protection always. I been with the same man for eleven years so Lord forbid something happen to him it would probably take me years and multiple test to trust someone with my goodies unprotected. I honestly believe after all I been through and learned a man would have to be my husband to have unprotected sex with me testing first of course.
Back in my day we'd take things really slow by just getting nekkid and sitting on the bed beside each other. We'd point at the various "parts" on each other and say, "When we get married Imma touch that and that and that..." Then we'd move on to kissing so long until we could tell whether or not the other person was an avid brusher of their teeth or not.
Finally, we'd just put our clothes on and then go our seperate ways and lie like hell to our respective best friends that we did the do. Yep. We didn't worry about wrapping nothing up back in those days unless it was a two piece chicken dinner.
Nowadays though... Shhhiiiiiddddtttt... You'd both better put on a dayum plastic garbage bag and roll around on top of one another in that sh*t. That HIV stuff is real like a mofo!
Finally, we'd just put our clothes on and then go our seperate ways and lie like hell to our respective best friends that we did the do. Yep. We didn't worry about wrapping nothing up back in those days unless it was a two piece chicken dinner.
Nowadays though... Shhhiiiiiddddtttt... You'd both better put on a dayum plastic garbage bag and roll around on top of one another in that sh*t. That HIV stuff is real like a mofo!
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