Hello I'm back, I find it even harder to date now. Do you?

Now that I have lost my weight, I find it even harder to date now. Now I am weeding out the knuckle heads. I am still seeking that special someone to Love me for me and now it's girl you look good. Now everyone wants to jump in to bed. I did not go through all this stuff to loose weight and then turn around and die from something else (STD). There is outside and inside beauty and I am really praying that someone will see that.

Girl - please...... um... oh hell - I'm too lazy to rehash all that's already been said on this but - you are looking too hard!!!!

Spend some time just chillin - kick it with the girls - pick up a new hobby - do some new **** you ain't never thought of before - when you looking to find somebody special.... the knuckleheads can SMELL that shiot on you!!!!!  LOL

relax - live and LOVE will find you........

I appreciate that, I needed that. I am trying not to look. But now I get bored. When I was heavier I had a lot to do and would get tired fast. Now I am full of energy and I work a lot. But I want to have fun to.

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Hey there.   I used to live not too far from Gastonia -- in Hickory.  I loved it there.

Keep your head up.  I don't think you are going to let the knucle heads win.  Do some stuff that will expose you to some different folks.  My husband got me golf lessons when we lived in that area, and there fun some guys at the driving range.  We also lived in Charlotte for a while and the scene there seemed to be hopping.  Although, I understand that it's quality, not quantity that you are seeking.

I appreciate that and your are right. It's time to do something different.

The beauty of black folks.. I really don't remember you but I am still wishing you the best!

Thank you.

many will say that you will find what you are looking for as soon as you stop looking.  I don't really know if its true or not.  Do you get any enjoyment out of dating or are you just on the hunt for the "one".  Life is going to be what you make of it and I believe that every person comes into your life for a reason.  Maybe you are missing the message in all of those knuckleheads.  Every knucklehead you meet, date, or dismiss is one more step to lead to your Mr. Right For You.  Or at least thats what I tell myself when I get in a dating rut too.
good luck

Thank you. I don't really care for dating because of the knuckleheads. I do want the one. But  I am not trying to look. The knuckleheads keep finding me and it becomes hard to push them away sometimes, because it seems like I am always pushing them away.  When will someone with moral and qualities finally show up?

Some one will see it , just be patient and continue to let god seek him out for you.