OT: MY take on Rihanna from a Tina perspective......

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 3/4/09 7:46 am
Aiight - errybody got they take on the whole Breezy, RiRi thang - but as a woman who has had her ass kicked - lemme break this down.....

How many of yall had ALL your **** together when you were 19, 20?  Knew EXACTLY what you wanted to do, be or whatnot and had a plan you were STICKING to?  Add to that - how many of yall at 19, 20 had experienced enough men to know what a trifling brother not just LOOKED but FELT like?  

If RiRi is anything like me and my friends at the time - 19 is the just coming alive time - but when you feel as if everything is set in stone.  I got engaged at 19!  and *I* was the mofo that proposed!!!  I just KNEW that was gonna be IT for me - and I THOUGHT I was ready!!!

Now - as far as the ass kickin - that fool only got one swipe at the kid cause I was in the process of kickin his ass out anyway - but my mom's dad?  shhiiiittt - that ******* stole my car TWICE...... I just KNEW I lubbed-ded that dude, I was just SURE I could 'make' it work...........

Everybody can say that RiRi need to kick him to the curb - but damn - anybody with a semi crazy 19 yr old time can surely attest to the fact that you ain't got your head on RIGHT, STRAIGHT or at all!  Can if Breezy is a lil Ike in the making - then ain't no way RiRi gon see anything different until he bust her rose colored glasses.  Sad?  Perhaps - but everyone has their OWN life to lead - what you won't put up with is not the rule for another, and everyone has their OWN bottom - sometimes you can be AT yours and lean over to look DOWN at another person's - doesn't change it ain't their choice.  

And I remember the HELL I went through with my friend judging me and my daughter's dad after all his foolishness - I can't imagine what RiRi must be dealin with all the spotlight and whatnot - but hey - just like Tina had 'What's Love' - she could be living her greatest hit.  Either way - her choice - her life - her rules.  To me - the whole 'she's setting a bad example' is unfair.  She is 19 and living a life that most GROWN mofos **** up - ease up and let her wise up on her own time is what I say................

Just my $0.02

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ValueMe
on 3/4/09 7:59 am
Hey Ms. MM:
Now YOU said the Key Code Words, " that fool only got one swipe at the kid", and You did not even make your living with your face and voice. Even you knew that ONE ass whuppin was enough! No, nothing is written in stone, but until he gets his ass together, I'd be lovin him from a distance...I believe in some distant love>>>the more distance between a MF that hurt Me, the more I love them.

 

 

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 3/4/09 8:05 am
ONLY because I was kicking him out already tho!  LOL - if it hada been in the 'heat' of our relationship - I don't know.....

I had another mofo choke the **** outta me - I stayed after that.......  

Not everyone is automatically triggered by the first evidence of violence.

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ValueMe
on 3/4/09 8:19 am
I don't know what is going on with her, because her parents are in her life and she has handlers. She could be getting some major bucks for this or something. But I do believe that she is sophisticated enough to know she is in danger and needs distance. 

I will wait to hear the facts at the trial or maybe there will be a plea bargain. But I am pretty sure that the DA won't drop this case. (She can be compelled to testify because this happened before they got married, and even if not it is not a marital secret as between spouses), I really want to hear the evidence.

 

 

Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good! 
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

 

 

Mrs. Vice Versa
on 3/4/09 8:13 am - Newark, NJ
How about this for my .02 cents sis...I COULD GIVE A DAMN ABOUT RHIANNA AND CHRIS BROWN!!! I'm so damn tired of hearing about this story. You know how many woman got their asses kicked since that **** happened. AND stayed...cooked that mofo dinner...AND MOST LIKELY GAVE HIM THE GOODS AFTER THAT!!! I am soooo over it!!


Also...I cannot guarantee that her ass didn't PROVOKE an ass whooping....(No i do not CONDONE a man whooping on a woman but I sure as hell can understand how a woman PROVOKES an ass whooping)

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 3/4/09 8:20 am
  So - what's your REAL opinion, sis????

LOL!!!!!  I feel you - media acting like it's the worlds first ass whippin since Ike and Tina!!! 

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Mrs. Vice Versa
on 3/4/09 8:22 am - Newark, NJ
Oh yeah...and I miss you...LMAOOO

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 3/4/09 8:23 am
You STILL tickle the HELL outta me - how is the baby???  how you been in general????

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Mrs. Vice Versa
on 3/4/09 8:26 am - Newark, NJ
I am GREAT sis....the kids are GREAT...the hubby is GREAT....I shall not complain. I need to make my way to TX one of these days and YOU will be hosting my visit...deal???

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 3/4/09 8:29 am
COOL!!!  H town got some cool ass spots lady!!!! 

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