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Its all good MsCleo.  Like my Mama always said opinions are like ******** everybody's got one and most of em stink.  I'm one of those folks thats ok with disagreeing.  You won't find me spreading hate..and I'm more than open to somebody showing me another side of things.

i'm sorry who accused you of spreading hate....maybe i'm a little confused to begin with cause i'm not sure why you replied to me in this shape form & fashion......and yes you are correct every one has an asshole, therefore can voice an opinion....but what does that have to do with me please...i don't have an opinion one way or the other.(on this topic)..however, anything that i do voice an opinion on i also have some klnowledge/understanding behind it...

Be Blessed~
Ms.Cleo

Wow.  I was just replying to SMH comment.  No worries. You have a good day.

So if I was a **** ******g 100 dudes every month - I'd be cool - not greedy....

but **** a dude AND a chick - then it's a problem??

You lost me on that cuz....... that's a simple label to whip out and call out.  why should a person limit who they see or deal with?  If I am attracted to and drawn physically and emotionally to someone - why should their sex limit my response to that feeling?

That's not saying I walk down the street humping everyone I see - but if I am out 'Mackin' in a club one night and hit on 5 brothers and 1 chick - I'm greedy cause I didn't isolate my Mack to just the bruhs???

So if I was a **** ******g 100 dudes every month - I'd be cool - not greedy....


Now I never said that...I've got opinions on that too but I doubt that you wanna hear them.

Why does the 'greedy' label offend so?  I PERSONALLY don't have a problem with gay straight whateva...But I think that as a straight woman there are things I look for in a man (not necessarily in the bedroom) that the most butch woman couldn't provide me.  Also if its the emotional tie of being with a woman that women are drawn to whatever happened to having that best girlfriend that is around for life thru good times and bad?  

I'm a self professed *** hag but I have never really had any Lesbian friends.  So I guess I just haven't given the issue that much thought.  All I do know is my gay friends have only dated women during their confused and in the closet periods.  But at that time they were denying their true selves. 

I know most people will say that the issue of sexuality is more grey than black and white I just know I have never been the utmost attracted to a woman.  I can look at her and think oh she's really pretty but that's as far as it goes.  And I can't wrap my head around feeling equally attracted to both sexes.

Trina-we still friends?

Chile please - I don't offend easy!!!  LOL - I like the debate!!!

I am not offended in the LEAST  call me what you will - I could give a hot shiot less - it's not WHAT people CALL you - it's what you ANSWER to!!!!!

And that's cool that YOU can't wrap your head around being equally attracted, doesn't mean the condition doesn't exist and that some folk REALLY do feel that way.  I am attracted to PEOPLE - hell - I don't even have a TYPE - I SAY I have a type of man I am attracted to, but if you look at the men I have ended up with - SO not the 'type'........

And the chicks I have been with don't look nothing alike either!  I don't know - I'm really open minded when it comes to sex and pleasure - I don't like to label or categorize things for the sake of making it 'right' or 'approved' - I go with what's mutual and what's good...... just me!

Whew! Good.  Like I said in my post to MsCleo I'm not one to spread hate and I am more than willing to have someone show me another way.  While *I* don't feel an attraction to both sexes my opinions are based on the fact that all the gay people I have ever known have only dated the opposite sex while still in the closet.

Its all good.  Hell this world is so ****** up I'm all for people finding love where they can.

Okay, i'm sorry.....but please keep my name out of yr mouth...no harm or disrespect meant....but by all means i aint said two words to you****il my response to yr post) and yet my name is in yr mouth...

Good explaination the light bulb went off & I get it. 

But you know what I've always called my bisexual friends greedy!, just down right GREEDY ya'll want it all :)

Well I'm glad you are seeing the light  cuz I'll admit thinngs are still murky for me on the issue.  But to be honest it really doesn't matter to me, I don't get, but I'm ok wwith that.