ot...DOUBLE STANDARD????

EXACTLY!  There is always going to be that itch that needs to be scratched.

See.....That's what would ALWAYS be in the back (or the front) of my mind. 
Is he scratching "That" itch??????

Naw....I just can not bring myself to share in that way.  It does not work for me.  It messes with all I believe about masculinity and femmenity.  It crosses a line of which I can't go back over.

Yes it's a double standard.  But I, for one, am not bi and so my man does not have to compete with men and women either.  It's my preference - I respect others preferences as well.

Yes this is a double standard, and yes I would be able to.  Matter of fact I would be grateful that he was honest enough to share with me.  My baby knows about past relationships and is glad I am strickly with him now.  As a human service worker/provider, I found out years ago that disease can be passed on through sexual relations orally.  This was a shock to some however more dams and safer sex practices became available in the GLBT community. 

There is NO way that I could date a man that I know has been with another man. I'm a firm believer that everyone should do them...............he just wouldn't/couldn't be doing me!!!!

It tickles me the chicks that say they wouldn't do it - cause more than likely they HAVE - albeit unknowingly, SEVERAL times -

As for me - *I* am bi - and have done threesomes with bi-men.  You can get HIV from puddy just like you can from the dickley - safe sex is safe sex, period. 

Oh yea - your QUESTION was if there is a double standard.... YES there is!!!!  LOL 

That is so so very true,especially if you live in ATL-home of the down low brothas. You probabky have slept with one unknowingly.

It tickles me the chicks that say they wouldn't do it - cause more than likely they HAVE - albeit unknowingly, SEVERAL times

The key word here is unknowingly. How can you be responsible for something that you do not know?

No - the KEY here is safe, responsible sex and being informed of your status.  No one can know everything about someone without question - but one can protect one's self from another's hidden secrets.......

I wouldn't date a man who was in a relationship/ engaged in sexual activities with another man.  The double standard does exist.

Nope definate deal breaker and I do not know a woman would say yes to this question. The man got excited because he thought he could get homegirl to do a threesome plain and simple since she obviously isn't opposed to being with a woman.