Can't be mad at Haters but um...

Shake em off Ma cause when you get close to goal they all will have something in common....the color GREEN .....as in the the old green-eyed monster called jealousy  lol...you think they being snarly now just wait.

Ru Paul said it best " you better work ...work it gurl do your thing........

Dayum! Anyway, this too shall pass! My former co worker said a lot of negative things about me with the surgery and now she's going to have the surgery April 6. I could've easily thrown a lot of **** back at her but instead I am supporting her.

Michelle. ... you said it right on !!!!   



"Bitter Party" of 2 ......   your tables ready !!!!!

that's what they are .. BITTER !!!!!

Hi Pinkster, you ar her blessing in disguise of an angel. which she will need.  She problemly thing this is a easy fix.Hummmm. But I'm glad you are a big enough person to go along with her on her journery. What goes aound come around and she be telling you a lot of thing you think you never hear from her on the weight lost journery. Work her will.

When grown folk run around telling tales about what somebody else said, I tend to wonder about their motivation for doing it.  Is it because they care about you, because they hate the other person or because they just like to stir up mess?  Personally, I'd be watchful with all of them until I knew for sure.

Its all to the goody, make your haters your motivaters . Keep your head up young one.peace NASIR RAHIM

See,

This is the type of bytchassness that I hate.

First why the hell are grown a$$ men "falling out" I don't understand that......that's sum bytch ****2nd of all why are grown a$$ men discussing a woman that neither one of them are trying to get at? 3rd....why would homeboy even open his mouth about "fat" people stinking.....thats some more bytch mess right there.....

3 lil bytches.....i'll be down that way 4/18 for the Mighty Ninth 9's annual meeting..........
POINT EM OUT POINT EM OUT...........

People are going to talk no matter what you do. Please don't let those who bump their gums get you down, just answer them with your daily successes.

Hey Ms. Apple:
I hate that those people tried to take you off of your game. DO NOT ALLOW THEM TO DETERMINE YOUR RESPONSE to LIFE Happinings. Personally, I do not believe in getting too close to people that I work with; friendly yes...friends, NO; confidante, absolutely NOT. Clearly they were each others confidante and look what happened. As someone said seek affirmation from those that you KNOW LOVE You and that you can Trust.

Tricie put up a Thread yesterday that is perfect for You now. Take it to Heart: The 4 Agreements

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any cir****tance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

Young Lady you are doing your thing keep up the good work and keep stepping with you head up high.  Everthing good comes to them that work at it. And I loved all the comments Sweet revenge when you lose the weight and keep it off.Show them better than you can tell them with is my favor. And a few of the other poster you keep on doing your thing.