4 agreements of Meet & Greet w/pic

Tricie 40
on 3/1/09 4:13 am - Back Home For Good, IL
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz..... Read it if you get a chance

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any cir****tance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

I didn't make any comments on the picture because it would have been the same comment....Beautiful...just Beautiful. It was a pleasure meeting EVERYBODY. I dont post often and I dont have a computer so I dont really lurk either. So it was a few that I did not know(japi)but it was a pleasure meeting. I wanted to add music to this album, but I'm not that advance and this is not my computer....I would have added "We are family by Sister Sledge". Sing along and I hope you guys enjoy the picture. BTW I ran out of room and could not upload all. If I took your picture and you want it, send me an email and I will send it to you. You have to request it this week while I have a computer.

ONE MORE THING

BAF, I love you guys...all of you! We as a group must strive to focus on the support  of this forum. Losing the weight is the easy part. Figuring out how to lose being the fat victum is the hard part. I work everyday(fail more than I succeed)on not becoming the victum of being fat my entire life....the questions I ask myself for no damn reason at all. Especially since weight was my only issue/challenge/problem......right?  yeah right!

Questions I deal with mental...all the time: 

I've tried on 20 different outfits and I still look funny(this one bring tears everytime for me).I've loss 200 lbs and I STILL cant find anything to wear....come the **** on!

But I am smaller, prettier, more money, smarter...blah, blah, blah....why dont you want me. Why didn't I get picked this time.....now what it is! 

These are thing that put us....me in defense mode and when you are in defense mode, you protect and attack. 

BAF please take a look at how beautiful you all are and try to apply the four agreements to your everyday life.

I LOVE Y'ALL

Tricie 

http://www.picturetrail.com/sfx/album/view/21637414

 

The only person that is with us our entire life,  is ourselves. Live while you are alive

Tricie



 

 

* Amanda *.
on 3/1/09 4:25 am - Chicago, IL
Just wanted to say that you are a beautiful person inside and out.
sboyd1
on 3/1/09 4:48 am - Pearland, TX
I loved the pictures of the M&G..... Tricie, you look damn great!!! I am so happy for you and so proud of well you worked your tool way beyond the nth degree!!!! I could go on, but I'll stop here.... girl you are truly an inspiration to me.... Thanks for this post.... so so deep.... ttyl....
(deactivated member)
on 3/1/09 4:57 am - Northern, VA
Lap Band on 09/30/05 with

Great pics, you look stunning and wear your jeans very well...be blessed!!!

Ms Robyn
on 3/1/09 5:03 am - North, TX
Pictures of you and the other ladies look very nice

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(deactivated member)
on 3/1/09 5:12 am

Those were some very deep sentiments.  I hope everyone, including myself, takes heed.

 

ValueMe
on 3/1/09 5:15 am
I totally agree with the AGREEMENTS. However, there is another perspective that is also real, "familiarity MAY breed Contempt." Unfortunately, we can't look at a person outsides and tell if they are beautiful (fare natured), have confidence, a good Spirit, Integrity, sincerity, Intellect, kind, generous; the outside can only reveal to the seer if the person looks good to them or not.

 

 

Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good! 
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

 

 

(deactivated member)
on 3/1/09 5:24 am
All I know is you make me sickkkkkkk with your photogenic azz!! Tricie you are simply beautiful and I am sooooooooo soooooooo happy I finally got to meet you! 
Tricie 40
on 3/1/09 5:32 am - Back Home For Good, IL
Me....you are the one that is photogenic. You and Kim are the 2 I wanted to meet the most. I was real happy to meet you.....See below. If I had a tool it would be a nail....

  

 

The only person that is with us our entire life,  is ourselves. Live while you are alive

Tricie



 

 

virtly
on 3/1/09 5:25 am - va
RNY on 02/11/04 with
Tricie,
It was great seeing u last weekend. I agree that book is powerful.
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