Just wanna Cuss

DAMMMMMIT!!!!!

I'm not one to rant and to go off but GotDayumn I NEED to right about now!!!!

Bare with me please.

So I have been planning my sistah's 50th birthday weekend for MONTHS,  for real months y'all.
We are a social group and when a sistah turns 50 we do it BIG....I'll be 46 this year ~ I can't wait to turn 50 cause they better do me really good.  But anyway, I digress.  All the plans are in place.  I've got stuff I need hubby to do for me and I am picking her up Friday after work to stay at our house to start the weekend.

WTF???  Last weekend I had to work..could not wash clothes and clean the house.  Hubby was gonna do it for me.  His grand mother got sick and who in da hell did they call???  Yep  HIM.  So he spent all day in the ER with her (she's 88 and still there bless her heart~ hope she gets better soon)  But he gets what????  Sick as a dog 2 days afterwards.  House not clean, clothes not washed - dammit - and I work saturday and sunday and move right on into monday not knowing what's up - tired as all hell but we keep pushing.  Tuesday he feels like all hell.  Coughing and barking and all ****** up.    **** - here it comes!!!!

Mind you I've got people coming in from out of town - staying at MY house, kids going to grandma's house, food to cook, stuff to wrap, surprises to pull off.  All depending on my house being clean and my family not being ******g HERE!!!  (OK I'm selfish - damn)

Wednesday....  Husband is sick as HELL.  He is over the edge almost ready for the ER himself ~ but oh hell ~ that's where he picked up satans spawn and refuses to go back.  Kid #1 has sickle cell and the slightest cold will make her sick as hell - need morphine for the pain, stay a week in the hospital kinda sick, is starting to show signs of this NOT being a good week.  I medicate her, take care of hubby, give them both soup and meds and try to clean the house and do the laundry.  WTF???  the dryer stops working,  after of course I get a full ******g load out of the washer and start another full load!!   ARGGGGH  now I'm pulling out my hair cause I have wet clothes I must carry to the laundy cause they have to get dry cause they will stink and WTF happened to my dryer?????  Hubby to sick to look at it AHHHH DAMN!!!

So hubby is pitiful and kid #1 is to and kid #2 goes with me to help dry the clothes.  He's cool - 9 year old boy full of energy and testosterone and really trying to help but wait..... while we are out he starts coughing to.  ahhh damn   JUST SHOOT ME NOW PLEASE!!!

So it's now Wednesday night.  The clothes are dry, folded and put away. Everyone is ******g medicated and in bed.  I still have rugs to vaccumn, floors to scrub, bathroom to clean and house to sanitize.....Because I have people FLYING IN that I can not put off for a weekend long celebration I have been planning for months.  I've got a sick family - a sick house -and very little patience and too damn much to do before friday and I still have to go to work tomorrow and friday!!!!

I'm sipping vodka and cran and hoping like hell this tickle in my throat is not that bull**** that has brought everybody else down - because I REBUKE that ****T!  I refuse to get sick - cause if I do WHO IN DA HELL WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL OF THEM AND DAMN!!!!  I have a great ******g weekend planned!!!!!!  cough cough  DAMN DAMN DAMN!!!!!!

I'm Mopping and vacummin right now...still sippin they all sleep cause I gave them all the good good niquel, night time  extra dose.  But Damn!!!  can a Sistah get a break??  Cough cough  I'll be damn if I get this **** now!!!  WHERE IN DA HELL IS THE LYSOL?????

Dayum, Dayum, Dayum!!!!

Maybe you can take herbs like goldenseal and echinacea and zinc and vit C. You should get the bleach out along with the Lysol - lol.

Sorry about your fam and I do hope your weekend celebration is fabulous.

Thank You SlynnD,

Just finished with the lysol.  I've got till Friday. Tomorrow night I'll hit the bleach.  Damn Damn Damn!!!  Hubby gotta take the kids to my moms Friday afternoon.  **** all their asses might be up in here sick as hell tomorrow ******g up errything!!  Lawd I'm sorry!!!  Gotta clean it all up again tomorrow night ~ ****TTTTTT!!!  Damn germs!!!  I rebuke them ALLLLL!!!

DAMMMMIT the only reason I was not able to hang last weekend when everybody was in DC was because I had to work the weekend so I did not have to work THIS WEEKEND!!!!!  I just keep loosing out!!!

I can not send sick kids to my Mommas house to get HER sick ~ ****t then I'll be back in the ER with her sick ass!!!  I CAN NOT WIN!!!  Cpugh cough  sip sip sip  I WILL NOT GET SICK!!!!  DAMN IT!!

Hi there Madame, that why I only have acquittance(Sp?) because we've never been able to have a social life.  Then I battle fibromygia glad you have the get up and go to go. My house look like a mad a** person live here, anytime I start to clean someone or I fall sick again. I spent my DD wedding weekend in a hotel not to have anyone around my house. Not a joke can send you a receipt and to get rest I've been there (hotel) and didn't want to come home, but the funds was running out.  Hope that make you feel a little better you are not along. GOD BLESS YOU and your family hope your plans go off well. I have always wash dishes with a little clorex in the water.  Will stop the germs from spreading thru out the whole family. my 2 cents
HOPE YOU GET TO ENJOY THE WEEKEND SEND THE HB WITH THE KIDS.
OOPHS FORGOT ABOUT GIVING MOM THE COUGHS

Kathleen I do understand and I did think about that but..... I ain't got the money for no hotel for FOLKS!!!!  We just Re-Did the house so we could have folks over to  DO **** like this!!!!!  AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I don't know what to do??????  Can't send sick family to hotel ~ who will take care of 3 sick people.  Can't put up others in a hotel.  Could send kids to moms  but thats a risc - Joc could get bad and just **** that all up and Jay will just spread the germs, could just  keep Jon in the bed room ~ Ahhhh Helll it just don't work out no way no how!!!

They better just get BETTER FAST!!!  And I'm still NOT catching thi crap!!!!!!!!!!!

Hell I'm gonna go sleep on the couch cause i don't wanna be in ther with him tonight!! damn damn damn!!!

Where is Donna and her song when I need it?????

That's why my house has not gotten remodel yet wedding came first. In the middle trying to get the house clean I felt myself getting sick and had to give up. Trying to get the house clean , going to have to really find someone to help clean up the mad house.  And looking to down side before HB retire.
One thing I know you are one strong woman and well work it out just breathe(Sp?).  I hope your HB is not like mine like to cuddle when he's ill. When I'm ill I go to our room and close myself in. Him nnoooooooooooo.
Things will workout.
Give your baby girl a (((((((((((((((BIG HUG ))))))))))))))for me.
Right now I'm have problem sinus,allergy or what????

You understand why I can not stand this crap.  With a sickle cell child a rampant germ can just mess up an ordinary day ~ don't try to plan something.  I don't know why I try????

It's gonna be alright ~ to much money has been spent to make this weekend work.  Gonna call the other sistahs in the morning and we may have to move some stuff -people stay some where else.  I'll work it out ~ damn sick people.  Ahhhhh!!!  I'll do something!!   I just REFUSE to get it With them ~ damnnnnn!!!

 Get enough rest the family is going to be find about time you are ready to have Fun. I never planned anything unless we was going so place. She it ill before we leave I divide the clothes and hed for the hospital. This is a big one God is going to give you the will needed rest.Hummmmmm.

Oh my Madame... what a hell week!  I can't lie... I kinda of chuckled a bit while reading your post... sounds so typical in my case.  Talk about when it rains it poors.  I can relate.

I hope you can salvage your big weekend plans with your sister and family.  Take some airborne right now and get some rest - you'll need it!

Hugs,
To Be Me Again

Girl..... I'm so tired from washing, cleaning and nursing that I can not sleep.  Gonna be on the couch when I do.  Damn if I want to be in any room with any of their cooties.  Glad I over dosed ALL their ASSES  ha ha ha ha ha they sleep now!!!!!  LOL

I've got me some ****  and sheer determination to keep me from getting that crap.

Don't know waht the hell I'm gonna do.  LOL  But none of them are bothering me now!!  If they are all sick tomorrow morning I'm rolling OUT ~ shoot ~ gotta make some money ~ they will WOR IT OUT!!!!