RIHANNA PIC...POOR THING

One of the gossip sites claims that she said in the police report that he ha**** her before and that the abuse had been escalating.  It's really a shame.  She's so beautiful and talented, but until she decides she's fed up and deserves better, she's doomed.  If it's not him, it'll be another abuser.

I had a friend who was in a physically abusive relationship with a guy she lived with.  He used to beat her like a dog.  I remember one time I drove her back home to be with her family after he made her have a miscarriage with HIS baby.  You know what?  She went right back to him after a few roses and some weak a$$ed promises. 

I have so tried to stay away from this topic.  WHY???  Because it hits home in many ways.   My 1st husband was a manic depressive crack head.  Leading up to the end he got physical.  The only reason he is alive today is that I could not live with killing my daughter father - she looks just like him.  I never came out of it looking like Rihanna but I sure felt like it.  I had to get away - it was killing me -physically and spiritually.    The repercussions reached far into my marriage to Jon.  When we got together we made a pact early on that before we lay hands on each other in anger we would leave.  I did not devulge all the dirtiness of the previous marriage.  One day, in love, he grabbed me around my neck.  UT OH - he did not know that I had once been strangled almost to death.  I flintched and pulled away -he wanted to know why - I then had to explain.   I also lost a cousin to domestic violence.  Mind you, she would do **** that would make me want to kick her ass and I did once.  So I understand how she could push a person's tolerance.  But every relationship she got into envolved the man physically beating her.  Her mother was a battered woman.  She had been beaten, had her arm broken and did actually once set her bed on fire with her husband in it.  Was that why my cousin only dealt with men *****sulted in violence?  Is this why she pushed men beyond the point of no return?  Is this why she died from a gun shot to the back of the head by a former lover?   IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE in ANY WAY SHAPE OR MANNER.  It exists in our society for many resons - many of those inbread due to how we grew up.  I for one did not grow up in a violent home so I knew it was not alright and as soon as I could I got out.  But what about all those who can not or feel that they are used to it - "My Momma survived and so will I?"  How do you know you will survive?  We teach our children how to deal with life - what are we showing them?  Do you think the night that Chris and Rihanna faught in the car was the first time he show aggression towards her?  I doubt it.  You don't go from loving partner to whupping someone's ass in a matter of minutes.  The signs were there - she did not head them.    I for one feel sorry for her.  I also feel sorry for him.
 

I agree with all of that and them some. Buttera...if dat dere pic were of Nia, it would be my mug shot. I be damb if anything above a one cell organism gonna make me look like that without a fight.

Now, I may take a beating but I will be striking a prison pose not too long after.

Hail nah.