Does weight loss help you find your soul mate???
On February 18, 2009 at 12:36 PM Pacific Time, Charlene A. wrote:
Hi All,
So I got on the scale today!!! Im officially 206lbs in less than 7months Im 5lbs away from 100lbs weight loss! OMG I cant believe it! Its the best.
I have always had a boyfriend or someone of interest. But I have notice lately that I cant beat the men off with a stick!! it's insane....Ive never gone through this before. Ive always been called "CUTE" now its "Sexy"..."Beautiful"..."Classy"..."Pretty" and I think to myself and laugh.
Are men REALLY THAT VISUAL.
And I thought I was pretty good looking before, but I dont even know how to take all the attention. Its a little overwhelming. I mean I go to the grocery store, driving down the street, the park everywhere! Its strange
And yes, your weight loss will expand your dating pool !!
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on 2/18/09 7:59 am
on 2/18/09 7:59 am
I've got say even at my heaviest I too always had someone I was dating if I chose to. I would have a real hard time dealing with men that I knew would never be interested in me prior to losing weight. All the important things that make me who I truly am don't change despite my weight.
Hey Charlene. I do not think loosing weight is the absolute trigger to finding a soul-mate or any other mate. I'm with the others that said they would not want a man that was not attracted to you before wls.
I am still the same person and I believe I always will be. I know a lot of people claim wls changed everything for them and that may be true. But I am still me inside and will still have the same basic view points. I do believe we have a right to change our mind, grow and learn, but my personality is still the same and has been from childhood into womanhood. I would not want a man that thought less of me for being a fatty or former fatty. That would not be my soul-mate. I wouldn't even be friends with a person like that.
I am still the same person and I believe I always will be. I know a lot of people claim wls changed everything for them and that may be true. But I am still me inside and will still have the same basic view points. I do believe we have a right to change our mind, grow and learn, but my personality is still the same and has been from childhood into womanhood. I would not want a man that thought less of me for being a fatty or former fatty. That would not be my soul-mate. I wouldn't even be friends with a person like that.
ThaFatChick 
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