Is IT RUDE????????????

Good Morning People!

I have been told by 2 many to count that I am too straight forward...I can't help it...do you think it's rude to tell someone you don't like them?  I mean why be phony and have a conversation with someone ur're really not feeling! I would respect your Honesty over your PHONY ASS...i guess it's just me.

Case in point:

Yesterday I had the infinite pleasure of taking a walk downtown with a friend,we happened to run into this chick I CAN"T STAND(*****) she spoke to me I was like "hey" and she was like every time I see you you are cold to me, what's good with that? I tole her straight out "cause I don't really care for you" .....

Me: well it's really a number of things, but you just rub me the wrong way.

her: how so?

me: (thinking) (why ask dummy. I just tole u I don't care 4 u..do you like to feel stupid) I just don't like the way you get down, your phony and think that you r the **** and your not.....sometime ago I was out with friends and you joined the cypher, you were rude and you asked me to take a picture of you guys and totally left me out of the picture, you left me out of the picture because you are a shallow person and didn't want my fat ass effing up your pictures!

her: I didn't do it on purpose...I ..(cut her off a the the knees..no excuses fake ass model-wanna be)

me: yes you did, I am not going to argue with you, I am on lunch and currently not getting paid for this, but just know how you treated me will come back to you, you have a problem with overweight people, now all of a sudden when you noticed I have been losing weight you want to start saying "what up " to me when I see you in random places...that's phony and I don't do phony.

her: (look on her face) Effing PRICELESS.....no words...!!

My friend: well it was nice seeing you again Natalie

The nerve of her ass to think WE are cool now..kiss my NOW 238pds 5"9 ASS!!

No, its not rude to tell someone you don't like them.  Especially when they are foolish / bold / stupid enough to ask.

There are lots of people I don't particularly like (that list grows longer every day it seems) and it doesn't necessarily have to be based on something they may have or not have done.  Sometimes you just pick up bad vibes from a person. 

Hell, there are folks on this board who are members of my mutual dislike society (not that I really give a kick, but it is what it is) because we probably don't vibe well. 

Hey, that's life in the fast lane, Miranda.  Like an old girlfriend of mine used to say, "Fugg 'em if they can't take a joke.."

Well D you know I was not joking...I felt this way don't ask if you don't wanna REALLY want to know!!!

M,
I know u weren't joking.  These days, I don't joke very much either.  So, no, i don't think its rude to answer when asked.  If someone IS bold enough to ask, why not answer them honestly? 

For me, there are ppl I don't speak with/to under any cir****tances because I have nothing to say to them.  Simple as that.  If addressed, I may be civil.  Unlike many people, I can't pretend to like someone.  I either do or don't. 

eta: if you asked nicely, I'd gladly kiss ur 238 lb arse. bwhahahahahahahahaha!

Umm nope if she was smart she would respect your honesty and keep it moving BUT dumb azz folks think we are all supposed to get along ~cough unrealisticmotherheffas~

@  cough unrealisticmotherheffas~

lol that was a funny one imma hafta use that one!

You know what....I think people should just get over the fact that not every damn body is going to like you for whateva reason Does it matter? Not to me unless you:

A) Pay my mortgage
B) Sign my paycheck
C) Lickin my crack

I'm just sayin...

I have respect for you even tho we have not met BECAUSE of your honesty! Oh and we don't have to get along and you don't have to like me...just so you know

  @  C) Lickin my crack

What

LOL Yaya u crazy!! I already tole u I can't wait to meet you I def. would not have sent you a friend request if I did'nt like your personality...know that!!