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eta: one may also want to perhaps question the motives for telling CB about this bl chiot suddenly.  Plenty of people are subject to bl chatter. Hell, I know I have been (not that I really give a chiot).  Seems to me those who believe in the "run tell dat" method of commuication are just as guilty of chiot starting as those on the BL.



Thank you!!!!!!!!!

"And that's all I'm gonna say about that" -Forrest Gump

yr exactly right....if yr not the one talking yr listening....thats just as bad in most cases..and the person that ran an told just wanted to start some shiot...

Just wanted to say you are so rite about that. And yes I did go all the way off. And I dont know why I let this get to me but I did. I didnt know you couldnt post yo pics up here without putting a ******g post up everyday. And I will not let this get to me @ all because I've worked my tool and will keep on doing just that.....Thanks alot for your support and God Bless !!

wow....

THIS IS A SAD SITUATION. DON'T HATE ON SOMEONE ELSE PROGRESS. IT REALLY MAKES YOU LOOK BAD.  COVA KEEP ON KEEPIN' ON, YOUR DOING THIS FOR YOU NOT ANYONE ELSE. SMOOCHES FRIEND AND STAY HATA FREE.

    

Wow!! All I can say is relax and don't worry about what people say, you are a very handsome young man REGARDLESS of gender, that is YOUR business how you choose to live your life. And SO what if you just pop in with pics, isn't this a weight loss surgery site? Why does that bother folks? If you don't want to support him DON'T...coz there will be others that will and not simple minded, you don't have to be on here 24/7 to get support MOST  people have lives and just can't do the support 24/7.

It's is very sad that BAF is suppose to be dedicated to the Black community a place where we all can come and share a common bond weight loss and MEET and GREETS and talk about things that can uplift, inspire and HELP ONE ANOTHER instead of TEAR each other down, with jealousy snide remarks and so forth...

You can clearly identify the TROUBLE MAKERS just in this post alone to giggle and make fun of someone's elses misery and feeling like an outcast....I would feel ashame to blast this guy like that.....and SO what if he is GAY...there are LESBIANS on this forum that are very well respected are they talked about also????

Keep your head up!! You have done an awesome job with your weight loss and congrats to you and YES SADLY Obesityhelp.com is SOME people's whole life, they have no life outside of here and make those that DO feel alienated and not part of their "clique"

This message is from Dedee who can't post on BAF from her job.


Covah, really, are you serious?! Well, I guess you are, but look at it like this--with realization. People talk about your erryday. I don't care if it is a family member....that's life!   My problem with your post is: (1) Like you stated, "It's been a minute."  Minute equals month. And you show up and go the freak off--my problem with that [like you care], is (2) you did not call the ****S out! I mean you juss ranted ****s and haters....if you are that upset about the negative gossip, call their asse out and deal with them directly. You labeled everyone a **** and hater.   "Dedee like you don't go off!" Well, I do, but I will address the person directly. Obviously, they chatted on the backline and in the chat room to stay anonymous.....and you are only helping them keep the anonymity. (No, I don't give a flying pig who it is.)   You said this is the reason you stay away....I just don't remember you EVER being a BAF Regular. I think we have enough bad publicity on BAF.   True friends, will avoid telling you schitt to hurt you....they WILL say,  hey pick your associates/friends like you pick your fruit.   This is what I mean by unnecessary drama (who's ******g who, who's gay or straight, who's hair is weave, etc.)   Now I will agree that Blacks are always against each other, but that is movement that need to started ~like Civil Rights~.....I have not been on BAF, but I did not see anyone post about how good Whitney Houston looks, but people are quick to post about how BAD she or anyone else looks.....so, I do agree with that; however, ain't nothing we can do about it.    

Dedee.....If you not a hater or ****NO NEED to reply....And just because I don't post my life history on here, don't mean Im not a reg....YOU FEEL ME....God Bless and have a wonderful day !!!

Covah I completely understand where your coming from about the posting picks and updating your page often. The only reason I have a few post blogs that dont have to do with weight loss is because I was bored at work and didnt have anything better to do. And every time I come on here  is to just look not to participate but this site is used to maybe update those that are wondering how your doing, support, and as question, so why people riding d*cks if all you do is get on to post your success.  Dang I love them haters cause that just means you doing something right.
I'm with you 100% boo boo
And I have a question, since when does Minute equal month, I thought a minute in todays vocab meant a certain period of time?