OT Got a question regarding infidelity

Right now its "clean conversation" but I'm a realist and I know I'm strong and its not even to that point but since we started talking the past few days I thought it was a question I'd pose to the board.

  Okay I trust yah..but if he pulls out that secret weapon insert **** Le Male by Jean Paul Gaultier*** girl RUN...lol ! 



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You are TOO funny! GIrl this is someone I had NO busiess messing around with when I did. He was I believe 4 or 5 years older than me then (I was 15) and he had a girlfriend who was a senior in our school I was a sophmore and we "kicked it" for about  the entire school year and then it sort of fizzled but he was my first real crush lol

I agree he is an EX for a reason!!!!  Now quiestion?????  Has he seen you since WLS have you guys discussed that.  If not do you think that you kinda want him to see the new you...

Yeah we were too young . He has not seen me but he has seen pictures. I think you're right Candace  the last time he saw me I was close to my highest weight before WLS whenw e dated I was at my lowest so it was a low point for me when he saw me. So, now that he's seen pictures I'm like TADA look what you gave up.

lol...Candace girl I like your question......."the new you"...LOL(but of course)

although...I used to have an aerobics instructor in 2006 who made it very plain to us THICK women...I remember these very words.....LADIES LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH NOT TO ALLOW ANYONE WHO WASN'T TRYIN TO BE WITH YOU WHEN YOU WERE "THICK" TO TRY AND COME INTO YOUR CORNER WHEN YOU BECOME "THIN"!

I had to respect that b/c I've heard and seen so many women get turned away and walked out on/...etc etc..b/c they were "FAT". I feel like this love her or leave her alone....this is how sooo many women walk away from relationship so emotionally jacked up..

I think for a man it would be easier to cheat with someone new. For women I think it would be easier to cheat with an old flame because of the emotional connection they shared/share. The familiarity, the fact that some women don't forget certain past loves.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llfXbxLHJbg&feature=PlayList&p=FA720DB43E5B097B&playnext=1&index=24

"if we lay down tonight it just wouldn't justify putting love aside"
~mint condition

Jamille you're right I think its the familiarity.

since you asked....OLD FLAME