Why OH Why?!?!?!?

Ashley Nicole
on 2/17/09 10:41 am
Just a few questions for the board..if you can anser ANY of them i would appreciate it because im in total confusion right now

Why is it if a person uses a sexy pose to take a pic they are considered a "*****"?

Is it just the BAF board or do all the other forums have troll accounts???
Is OH a place to smash and bash people or is it a place for encouragement and help???

My life is like McDonalds....I'm Lovin It

Star Jones
on 2/17/09 10:48 am, edited 2/17/09 10:57 am - National Harbor, MD
I haven't scrolled down to the rest of the posts yet. I always start at the top and work my way down. Please send me links to all posts in question, then I can make better informed answers!


But off the top of my head:

YES
MOST BOARDS
BOTH (depends on what side of the bed some woke up on) LOL


ETA: Ok I saw the ***** pic question jump off.........that was not a ***** pic. I done seen some and dat aint it!

~Shani~
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Ashley Nicole
on 2/17/09 11:01 am
well when gorgeouslsa posted pics a comment was made about one of her pics...

and then i see peple talk about troll accounts on here (same post)

and te bashin thing i dont see often bu at times i see it it here...

My life is like McDonalds....I'm Lovin It

mscleo
on 2/17/09 10:56 am - WA

Why is it if a person uses a sexy pose to take a pic they are considered a "*****"?

not every one is going to agree with whatever one does..what one person might see as sexy another might see as whorish...thats every day life..

Is it just the BAF board or do all the other forums have troll accounts???
girl they everywhere..lol

Is OH a place to smash and bash people or is it a place for encouragement and help???

BAF is a place where you can come and get or give all the encouragement you want. it can also be drama if that's what one makes it...you have to just apply every day life here as well...there are people in yr life that you interact with daily that are fake as hell...those same dame people lurk here too...if i can tell you anything ~just take the best and **** the rest~ BAF is a beautiful place...relationships have been built here..there are some true friendships here..don't let the simple bullshiot get to you..

Be Blessed,
Ms.Cleo

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake

Ashley Nicole
on 2/17/09 10:59 am
very well put...i dont know it just crazy cuz when i come on te board its drama or what have you not and i don really visit the other boards so i wasnt sure if it was just this one or all o them...

but yeah i feel ya...your right peple gonna do and say what they want cuz they can hide behind the compute sreen

My life is like McDonalds....I'm Lovin It

nikkemo
on 2/17/09 11:25 am - Orange, CA
Why is it if a person uses a sexy pose to take a pic they are considered a "*****"?
Everyone's taste is different.  What I might consider normal another might take for being whorish.  Mix that in with a lack of tact and the ability to be anon, its a disaster waiting to happen.  Its just a risk you take when ever you put yourself out there.  I choose to ignore that kind of ignorant BS and keep on pushing. 

Is it just the BAF board or do all the other forums have troll accounts???   I think its common no matter what board or internet group you are on.  People have nothing better to do than to F with other folks.  They like the attention.
Is OH a place to smash and bash people or is it a place for encouragement and help???
Both depending on the person.  Some folks sit and wait to jump down anyone's throat because IRL, they can't.  Some folks just lack common sense and people skills.  And some folks are just plain crazy.  Being behind a keyboard gives them all sorts of freedom.
I've been on here for a little minute and I have seen a whole lot.  OH is what you make it to.  And thats also the way it goes IRL.  I take from here what I need and the rest I consider to be fluff.  In return I try to give support because everyone needs some support sometime in their life.


SECRET_SERVICE
on 2/17/09 11:40 am
"...Some folks sit and wait to jump down anyone's throat because IRL, they can't...."



Truer words are SO seldom spoken!!
pokerchips
on 2/17/09 11:43 am
Don't bring attention to hurtful negative people. What's so confusing about trying to figure out the motivation of a negative person bashing someone else?  If you didn't mention the drama I would have never gone back to that thread (nor would others who had already viewed the post) to see what you were talking about.  I'll tell you what the sister handled herself against the judgmental comment.  Negative drama mama's thrive on attention focused on them. 

Change is a Process Not an Event

Ashley Nicole
on 2/17/09 12:26 pm, edited 2/17/09 12:34 pm
my intent was not to mention the drama but someone asked me to send the link and i didnt know how to do all that so i just stated where it could be found...but i apologize if im shedding light on the negative..

My life is like McDonalds....I'm Lovin It

pokerchips
on 2/17/09 1:05 pm
Don't apologize Ashley you have no contol over trolls!

Change is a Process Not an Event

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