Finding that "Happy Place"...

coming from 304 lbs of pure unhappiness and pain i fight every day to be happy this is a struggle some days but i strive for that for me and my children by any means necessary i will be happy i was unhappy so many years of my life i refuse to give unhappiness another minute of my life when i was in the Pre-op stage and had to do all of the pre-op test and evals i found a therapist that was great i still use her to this day she keeps me grounded the part that you said about wls being 90% mental is so true if i did not have my therapist i would be a straight mental case.

I'm really proud of you for doing what you need to do and getting help. That's what it's all about!!! I suggested to her that she think about that also...

When I did my psych eval pre-op I promised the dude that I would seek therapy if I needed it...and I still would. It's no different than going to a doctor for a medical condition.

Oh I'm with ya T! 50 lbs ago you couldn't tell me shyt..........now.....same thing LMAO. I wish all my friends could find thier true happiness. Sometimes people look in so many other places than in themselves to find it.

WOMAN I was in denial about my size and weight BIG TIME! I thought I had it going on no matter what and never had a problem getting men either