The one that got away

(deactivated member)
on 2/13/09 7:12 am, edited 2/13/09 7:13 am
Who is the guy/woman that was in your past that you would like to re-connect with?  Frank Jordan.  We dated when I was 28-30 and leaving in Phx

What made him/her so special that they STILL cross your mind sometimes? He was the first truly adult relationship I had.  The first guy I ever really loved.  We had a lot of fun together.

What happened that split you two up? Unfortunately it was based on a lie, he wasn't quite divorced like he told me he was.  Its been a few years maybe the speration has become an official divorce.

and....
Do you do anything special to celebrate V-day? Nope!
Kim B.
on 2/13/09 7:58 am - OH
What happened that split you two up? Unfortunately it was based on a lie, he wasn't quite divorced like he told me he was. 

Never understood why men do this shiot....it ALWAYS comes to light eventually.  SMH

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

(deactivated member)
on 2/13/09 8:25 am
I know, huh...The thing is if he had originally told me he was just seperated I would have still dated him and it wouldn't have been an issue.  The fact that he wasn't exactly divorced and that I had to hear about it from someone else is what made it bad.
Kathleen T.
on 2/13/09 2:25 pm
GLAD YOU ARE DOING BETTER. JUST BEING BORED IS GOOD

The guy Kerry, also my best Friends cousins we don't bring up his name.

He was nice a had a killer smile and laugh.

He got a car and decide to go looking for something else after he found out there was no better out there. He wanted to come back hum, and my friends was just a grinning behind my back thought I didn't know. I was young but not dumb. Oh that why I use the word friends loosely.It was one of there younger sister. Still wanting to come back, I seen him a few year ago. Passed an spoke when I was talking to my sister about the time I remember the voice and smile he was out of sight. Then he left to go to college in the big H.

Several years later I meet his baby mommy. Dumb ass goes to college get the girl PG and bring her home to his mommy.  And goes back to Houston,TX. Never married her but paid the price
 for 18 yrs. And she stay here and he never came home. 

And why do they usually get the women that favor you so damn much.  It took me the longest to tell her who I was and she was a customer, she still is a customer.

Not this year be visiting my daddy,  He did get me flower at least he didn't go back to the jewelry store.


PS I guess I can take him to eat while I get a kid plate.
HAPPY VALENTINE DAY
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Proverb 16:9
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Kim B.
on 2/14/09 5:38 am - OH
Wow Kathleen, he got the girl pregnant and took her to his Mama and left, never coming back?  That is soooooo wrong...SMH

Sounds like you were better off without that one!  LOL

Happy V-Day to you too!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

Kathleen T.
on 2/14/09 12:58 pm
 In the voice of JJ Evans I NO no no .  But you still can't help remember the smile and laughter.  He just wasn't a keeper but I do understand he took care of his DD well.  Just Happy it wasn't me didn't like seeing my sister's being single mother's They did better by their selves.  1st love is hard but glad I kept things in tack I would have  been the one left . We dated for 3 years we was 15 when we started dating it was heart breaking but not to be for me.
 
"A Man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. 
Proverb 16:9
May not be where I want to be but I glad to be where I'm at.
Working at getting the rest of the way.

12/10/2012 I'll be having LBL, BL/BA, thigh & arm lift, eyelid
Body by Dr. Sauceda    booked to 12/9--12/22
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