Another Question: When Did You Gain The Most Weight

I'mma little late replying to this post but I wanted to add that I've been the fat kid all my life.  I didn't realize I was different until I weighed 90lbs in the 3rd grade and that was in front of all the 3rd graders.  My mom's family would just say I was "fine" but my dad was concerned so I started dieting in elementary school. 

In the 8th grade, we weighed in gym class and I was 185lbs.  I would gain 20 lbs each year without missing a beat.  During my freshman year, I turned to adipex and went down from 270-210 in 3 months.  I stayed 210 for like one day and the scale started going back up.  I got my first Valentine's day basket that year and have been addicted to chocolate every since.  When I went to med school, I had gotten down between 245-250 but when I graduated, I was up to 315.

It's been a struggle all my life with this weight so I'm thanking good for this surgery.

Dang Apple the 3rd grade?? That suck! How do you put an elementary school age child on a diet? Crazy!

Girl you weighed more in the 8th grade than I do now.. I know you went threw some shiot

I am happy for you that you have this opportunity 

Girl, yes...slim fast in the 3rd grade.  I can't believe junior high was the last time I weighed less than 200lbs...that's just crazy.

Wow.... that's okay now because you are going to weigh less than that here shortly... just try really hard to embrace it

Major weight gain, I dont know when it all happened.

When I look back at photos, i would say my frist major weight gain happened between 2nd and 4th grade.  I went from normal sized to chunky.

Then I would say, there was a steady gradual increase till I graduated High School,
At Graduation I was prob 270 - 280 ish.

some where in the next 10 years I balloned upto 360 - 380 lost down to 280 is then jumped back to 360 @ 32.

now I am 34 and 14 months post opp and happy @217 - 222lb range depending on the day.

i get try to exercise 3 - 5 times a week and life is lovely.

I think women notice me more (it could be in my head), but I am married, and it dont matter to me.  Good thang that shiznit didnt happen when I was single cause I wouldnt have been no good!!!

I have to say this... YES it probably is in your head.. because Smooth lets keep it real you looked good as a big boy as well.. See men can get away with that.. say what you want...but you guys can...lots of women are drawn to big boys.. I know I dated the baby huey's when I dated men..LOL

The one thing I am buggin off of though with you is that you yo-yo'd... I didn't think men really had that problem per se 

RoRo,
After I graduated, I had times when I would be focused as hell and drop 40lbs, then Ballon back up.  So yea, i would yoyo like a mofo.  at least 3 times in life I would drop 40lbs or more and gain it all back.

But then I wouldnt try to loose again for a while - i would be just happy again as an extra large brotha.

But, Riddle me this BATMAN, how many people's Significant Others have become insecure with your weight loss?  I tell my wife she only has to worry about 5 women scoopin me up - 1. Halle Berry, Sanna Lathan, Queen Latifa, Tocarra, and Selma Hayak (something about her I liked eversince the movie from dusk till dawn)

Make that 4 lil homie......

Tocarra is MINE!!!! 




But on the cool - ya wife ain't no punk - you's a hottie - while YOU cool with you now - she gotta get used to it - it will take a minute.....

Hey, pump ya brakes dere MM.

I am willing to share my Tocarra Fantasy - hmm....

Ok - get chaself twisted!!!

THAT is RIGHT up my alley!!!!!