Those of you who have had surgery and those of you who are planning on it....

They are expecting that I should receive an approval by 2/27 they said they will call me by 3/13 for a surgery date in April. So I am on my way.

WELL I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT I PEEPED OUT THE MAJORITY OF THE LADIES PROFILES AND TO BE HONEST WITH YOU ALL OF YOU WERE BEAUTIFUL THEN AND HAVE JUST BEEN ENHANCED DUE TO THE SURGERY. I THINK ITS JUST THE FRAME OF MIND THAT THE GUY YOU RUN IN TO HAS AND WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR . THERE ARE ALOT OF BEAUTIFUL WOMAN OUT HERE BUT THE INSIDE IS ALL WACKED OUT AND ALOT OF GUYS FAIL TO REALIZE IT NOT THE OUTER BEAUTY THAT COUNTS ITS THE INNER.

Well said   You are starting off on BAF really well  Flattery will get you everywhere with this group.

DANG CAN I SHOW A LITTLE OF MY EMOTIONAL SIDE AND B HONEST.LOL

Yes LOL we can use that around here.

Hey Lady Andrea!!!! 

Hey how are you and that precious baby

Ms lady let me tell you this I did not look like some of these women on the site as a pre-op and I honestly had to finally admit to myself that I DO look better now then i did carrying that extra 130 lbs. Its a fact and although I initally got mad because guys at work were trying to holla when I was just "cool friend Ro" and I like Faith was singin Mike Jones but when I had the "truth talk" with myself I had to be honest that physcially I'm in the best shape of my life and to get a compliment is acknowledging my hard work. But guess what? I'm going home to my hubby who got to know the true me and he got a great prize because he never knew that the beautiful rock he always thought was exquisite would turn into this diamond.
I will add there are some guys who I dated when I was thinner and wouldn't look at me when I gained the weight that when I see them this summer willtell them to kiss my ASS!

You go girl

I'm not the same person I was before surgery.  I'm much happier now that I am not in pain all dy or coming off a Vicodin high with a heroin itch.  I smile all day long, sing and dance in my chair at work. 
I still lack energy but I think thats normal following major surgery. 
A lot of people comment o my weight loss, which is fine.  but it bothers me only when people make such a fuss over it and saying how pretty I am now.  I'm like WTF was I before, I guess just the common run of the mill fat ass who couldn't put the twinkies down.  So when folks I know that have known me for a long time get on that trip, I quickly turn that ish right back on them and ask them dead to they face. Was I so hideous before.  They usually start back tracking and look down.
There is only one person who I would tell to kiss my ass, which I feel is coming on in another few weeks, and thats my son's father.  He already starting with the BS and he already knows that if he was on fire I wouldn't **** on him to put it out, so there is no way in this lifetime or my next one would I even give him another taste. Not now not ever.