Those of you who have had surgery and those of you who are planning on it....
I experienced EVERY day dream and thought you are expressing right now. TOTALLY normal. and to be honest for me i am NOT the exact same person i was before surgery. i mean my basic morales and how i feel about humanity as a whole hasnt changed but i am different. i dont think ib realized how low my self esteem really was when i was post op i can now look back and say i cant believe i accepted that! and i guarnatee you i have different standards for myself now. now this is MY personal experience i cant speak for all post ops on this.
and YES it feels great to say a mike jones! back then didnt want me.... LOL cause you know how i do now! LOL HUNTSVEGAS BABY !!! when u commin back?
and YES it feels great to say a mike jones! back then didnt want me.... LOL cause you know how i do now! LOL HUNTSVEGAS BABY !!! when u commin back?
Wow this is good information to know!! 
Cannot waite to see what others say....
Cannot waite to see what others say....
Myfitnesspal: MsDesire - Revision from Realize Band Patient
Height: 5'10" HW: 305 SW: 298 Surg Goal: 195 Endo Goal: 165
girl yes...i think this a very natural feeling for most here...if i wasn't good enough for you then, due to weight, then i'm no good for you now...i don't knock them for feeling the way they feel, cause we all like what we like and thats ok...but when i think of the values that i want in someone...i prefer someone who see's not only just the "physical" in a woman..but her mind, body and soul...he must desire all three.
"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake
COME THE FUGG ON NOW!!!!!!!!!!!
How you gonna hate on someone not wanting your azz when you FAT but wanting you when you SKINNY???
EVERY mofo got a preference!!! *I* won't date a fat man!! FUGG DAT!! Even when *I* was 386 - if he was not in line with HIS BMI - he couldn't get my time!!!
Now - hole up - you might be sayin '
Flag on the play!!' How am I gonna be hypocritical????
To me - it's not - folk are NOT obliged to like a big ole body when little one is more sexy to THEM. And if EVERYbody looked on the INSIDE of every mofo - Palestinians would put they rocks and rockets down.........
How you gonna hate on someone not wanting your azz when you FAT but wanting you when you SKINNY???
EVERY mofo got a preference!!! *I* won't date a fat man!! FUGG DAT!! Even when *I* was 386 - if he was not in line with HIS BMI - he couldn't get my time!!!
Now - hole up - you might be sayin '
Flag on the play!!' How am I gonna be hypocritical????To me - it's not - folk are NOT obliged to like a big ole body when little one is more sexy to THEM. And if EVERYbody looked on the INSIDE of every mofo - Palestinians would put they rocks and rockets down.........
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Yes I agree everyone has their preferences and if what you want is a skinny woman with a big ass and small titties, or a small ass and big titties then by all means do what you do and find that special one for you. But to me even if I get down to whatever the "ideal" type for a man is I am still a big girl at heart. I will always know that I am one cheesburger away from being right back where I started from. And if by some chance (which I have absolutely no plans on doing) I succumb to temptation and have that cheeseburger I want to know you aint going to leave me because you can't get down with a big girl. Naw partner I want, no I need a man that is going to ride this out with me. Who loves me for me and not what my bathroom scale reads or what my porportions are. So if I have known a man before WLS and this is the same man who barely spoke before WLS don't speak after when I walk past you with my size 8 baby phat jeans on.
Ok - lemme lay this on you........
Even though YOU may feel you are the same mofo - what if you DO change? won't you feel a little better about ktajj as you lose weight and feel physically better? do you not think that will manifest itself in SOME way that other's will see/pick up on?
what if THAT change is the 'kicker' - the thing that 'clicks' for someone and makes them attracted to you? Nothing to do with your weight - just how you are being YOU...... a lighter pep in your step, a brighter smile on your face, a higher giggle in your tone....... is that person wrong for liking you later because of that?
what if the person wanted to talk to you but wasn't sure they could be with someone who MIGHT be headed down an unhealthy road and possibly not around later? Would you get with someone who you knew beforehand had a terminal disease IF you had the chance to totally pass up that heartache?
I'm just sayin - everybody that hollas later ain't a complete azzhole......
Even though YOU may feel you are the same mofo - what if you DO change? won't you feel a little better about ktajj as you lose weight and feel physically better? do you not think that will manifest itself in SOME way that other's will see/pick up on?
what if THAT change is the 'kicker' - the thing that 'clicks' for someone and makes them attracted to you? Nothing to do with your weight - just how you are being YOU...... a lighter pep in your step, a brighter smile on your face, a higher giggle in your tone....... is that person wrong for liking you later because of that?
what if the person wanted to talk to you but wasn't sure they could be with someone who MIGHT be headed down an unhealthy road and possibly not around later? Would you get with someone who you knew beforehand had a terminal disease IF you had the chance to totally pass up that heartache?
I'm just sayin - everybody that hollas later ain't a complete azzhole......
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......
Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/
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