Thug Luvas, Bad Bytches, and YOU!

(deactivated member)
on 2/11/09 12:25 am, edited 2/11/09 12:26 am

"Thugcesses"  Alright!  I like it.  My advice to you is to copyright that schitt before some rapper from the "dirty-dirty" cuts a record with that very same title, and you get no do-re-me... 

Oh yeah, I know what will sell, Luv.  That's why my next single is gonna to be "Tupacitis".  You beat, TAW1975!

MrBaker870
on 2/11/09 12:44 am - Little Rock, AR
I feel what you saying shawty...you a ride or die type chick and thats real. Thats LOVE!!

Smile for me.........
(deactivated member)
on 2/11/09 2:37 am
Looks like I got another one of my BAF WLS Phrat Bros. on today. 

Mr. Baker.  What's the deal, Homie?



PrettyPlum
on 2/11/09 12:07 am
My daughter's father was definately a thug....he didnt have much money,  but you would never know that from looking at him.   

Bad boy m/o,  womanizing ways,  violent tendencies,  Timbs, butter leather jackets,   clean fade.....and  that " ay yo  Ma where you at "   kinda dialect.......

Prior to meeting him I didnt have many sexual partners and especially none like him that could hit it " good " from the back    ( just keeping it real )   He was what I called a rough rider and used his sexual prowess and experience to get me hook, line and sinker. Shoot,  he had  a girl completely clueless and willingly  to use up her whole paycheck weekly just so we could go out. 

I was 20 when I met him...he was  26.   I was a good girl who grew up sheltered under the  watchful eye of strong grandmother. I had  a good job and my own apartment by the time I was 19.  He grew up the product of a single mom with 5 sons  who wasnt able to teach her sons how to be loving, self sufficient, respectable men.  When we met he was a convicted felon, a teenaged dad and was preying on unsuspecting young me to  make things " convenient and comfortable "

I fault my lack of self esteem and lack of street smarts for getting involved with someone like him. The only thing that kept me with him for the 8 yrs that we were together off and on was the fact that we had a child together.  Which was by no means an accident on his part. I wasnt trying to make a baby with him, but got caugt up in the " I love you, we gonna be a family " of it all.   The baby was all apart of his way of  keeping me.  But what he didnt didnt know or expect was that the baby was also a catalyst for me to say ENOUGH.   

Today I am older, wiser,  much more worldly and I'm teaching my  16 yr old daughter how NOT to get involved with a man like her father.  In fact she even shared with me recently that if a guy reminds her in any kind of way of her dad  -she dosent give him the time of day.  


I will say that people do better,  when they know better. At least that was the case for me. Thank GOD  for life experience and growth cause it  only made me stronger. 


ktjajj
on 2/11/09 12:27 am - Buffalo, NY
Preach it Pretty P.
PrettyPlum
on 2/11/09 1:11 am
Thanks pretty lady,  I had to live it,  to share it.  

And from the signs of it....my daughter is listening and learning. 
(deactivated member)
on 2/11/09 12:41 am
Self-esteem, sexual prowess, life experience...  Those seem to be a common thread in this thread.   Hmmmm.... 

Do you still find guys like that the least bit attractive these days?
PrettyPlum
on 2/11/09 1:03 am, edited 2/11/09 1:07 am
Hell to da naw  Bobby......

Aint nothing cute bout a 40 yr old man walking around in unlaced Timbs, bopping,  talking bout what up Ma  when he got  kids of his own. 

Now swagger is sexy all day- everyday.   But  thugs get nada from me cept pity.  

Honestly being a thug is a mentality that  as one matures,  should become non-existent.

We cant conduct ourselves that way in the real world where we have to earn our keep.  Its just not acceptable.  Not to mention all the thugs I know or knew are now fathers and SHOULD  want to set the best example possible for their own children.

Honestly,  once I find out that something that I do can keep me down mentally or  financially then I'm about changing it......... so I can be UP with the people. 

In other words....money talks.  That thug schitt walks  

Say Word     



(deactivated member)
on 2/11/09 2:39 am
Word!

And don't call me Bobby! 
wonkad
on 2/11/09 12:42 am - IL

What a testimony!

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