Thug Luvas, Bad Bytches, and YOU!
My daughter's father was definately a thug....he didnt have much money, but you would never know that from looking at him.
Bad boy m/o, womanizing ways, violent tendencies, Timbs, butter leather jackets, clean fade.....and that " ay yo Ma where you at " kinda dialect.......
Prior to meeting him I didnt have many sexual partners and especially none like him that could hit it " good " from the back ( just keeping it real ) He was what I called a rough rider and used his sexual prowess and experience to get me hook, line and sinker. Shoot, he had a girl completely clueless and willingly to use up her whole paycheck weekly just so we could go out.
I was 20 when I met him...he was 26. I was a good girl who grew up sheltered under the watchful eye of strong grandmother. I had a good job and my own apartment by the time I was 19. He grew up the product of a single mom with 5 sons who wasnt able to teach her sons how to be loving, self sufficient, respectable men. When we met he was a convicted felon, a teenaged dad and was preying on unsuspecting young me to make things " convenient and comfortable "
I fault my lack of self esteem and lack of street smarts for getting involved with someone like him. The only thing that kept me with him for the 8 yrs that we were together off and on was the fact that we had a child together. Which was by no means an accident on his part. I wasnt trying to make a baby with him, but got caugt up in the " I love you, we gonna be a family " of it all. The baby was all apart of his way of keeping me. But what he didnt didnt know or expect was that the baby was also a catalyst for me to say ENOUGH.
Today I am older, wiser, much more worldly and I'm teaching my 16 yr old daughter how NOT to get involved with a man like her father. In fact she even shared with me recently that if a guy reminds her in any kind of way of her dad -she dosent give him the time of day.
I will say that people do better, when they know better. At least that was the case for me. Thank GOD for life experience and growth cause it only made me stronger.
Bad boy m/o, womanizing ways, violent tendencies, Timbs, butter leather jackets, clean fade.....and that " ay yo Ma where you at " kinda dialect.......
Prior to meeting him I didnt have many sexual partners and especially none like him that could hit it " good " from the back ( just keeping it real ) He was what I called a rough rider and used his sexual prowess and experience to get me hook, line and sinker. Shoot, he had a girl completely clueless and willingly to use up her whole paycheck weekly just so we could go out.
I was 20 when I met him...he was 26. I was a good girl who grew up sheltered under the watchful eye of strong grandmother. I had a good job and my own apartment by the time I was 19. He grew up the product of a single mom with 5 sons who wasnt able to teach her sons how to be loving, self sufficient, respectable men. When we met he was a convicted felon, a teenaged dad and was preying on unsuspecting young me to make things " convenient and comfortable "
I fault my lack of self esteem and lack of street smarts for getting involved with someone like him. The only thing that kept me with him for the 8 yrs that we were together off and on was the fact that we had a child together. Which was by no means an accident on his part. I wasnt trying to make a baby with him, but got caugt up in the " I love you, we gonna be a family " of it all. The baby was all apart of his way of keeping me. But what he didnt didnt know or expect was that the baby was also a catalyst for me to say ENOUGH.
Today I am older, wiser, much more worldly and I'm teaching my 16 yr old daughter how NOT to get involved with a man like her father. In fact she even shared with me recently that if a guy reminds her in any kind of way of her dad -she dosent give him the time of day.
I will say that people do better, when they know better. At least that was the case for me. Thank GOD for life experience and growth cause it only made me stronger.
Hell to da naw Bobby......
Aint nothing cute bout a 40 yr old man walking around in unlaced Timbs, bopping, talking bout what up Ma when he got kids of his own.
Now swagger is sexy all day- everyday. But thugs get nada from me cept pity.
Honestly being a thug is a mentality that as one matures, should become non-existent.
We cant conduct ourselves that way in the real world where we have to earn our keep. Its just not acceptable. Not to mention all the thugs I know or knew are now fathers and SHOULD want to set the best example possible for their own children.
Honestly, once I find out that something that I do can keep me down mentally or financially then I'm about changing it......... so I can be UP with the people.
In other words....money talks. That thug schitt walks
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Aint nothing cute bout a 40 yr old man walking around in unlaced Timbs, bopping, talking bout what up Ma when he got kids of his own.
Now swagger is sexy all day- everyday. But thugs get nada from me cept pity.
Honestly being a thug is a mentality that as one matures, should become non-existent.
We cant conduct ourselves that way in the real world where we have to earn our keep. Its just not acceptable. Not to mention all the thugs I know or knew are now fathers and SHOULD want to set the best example possible for their own children.
Honestly, once I find out that something that I do can keep me down mentally or financially then I'm about changing it......... so I can be UP with the people.
In other words....money talks. That thug schitt walks
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