Thug Luvas, Bad Bytches, and YOU!

wonkad
on 2/10/09 10:02 pm, edited 2/10/09 10:03 pm - IL

Me dinks dem crazeee!!!

It's too early for this...where's my  with protein?

When I think of Bad Boys that I like I think of:

* DMX doing back adjustments in "Belly".
* Nino Brown getting the "She's Got to Have it" girl to give him a peep show -whatever happened to her?
* Half the cast from Biker Boyz - yummy!
* Idris' intellectual dope dealing arse in "The Wire" - he can mos def have it on a platter.
* Charlie Sheen - long story

Mine are all strictly fantasy....I can't give you any personal on this one....me loves geeks, nerds and Cornys! I don't do bad boys.

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**Weight loss since June 08**

 

taw1975
on 2/10/09 10:38 pm - DFW, TX
Call it a bad case of Tupacitis but when I was younger (early 20s) I LOVED some bad boys/thugs/hustlers/whatever you want to call them.  I liked the thrill, the easy money they had, etc.

It was strictly immaturity.  As I got older I quickly realized I wanted a man with intelligence, a real job (that didn't take him to jail), etc.  I refound the one that I tricked off at 20 for the thrill of others and moving to Florida in the summer to be with him.

As for the men and their indiscretions (which also happens with women) it's simply a case of lust and thinking they won't get caught.  It's a sexual act so they feel it's different from the love they share with their s.o.  It's often not a mental thing but simply a physical one.  Instead of just reading the menu, they decided to buy.
(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 10:50 pm
Tupacitis?!  Is that like the gout? 

So you would say that immaturity lead you to the thugs/playas?  Now that you're older do you still feel that they hold a certain charm/pull/attraction where you're concerned?


taw1975
on 2/10/09 11:09 pm - DFW, TX

No attraction.  I have a son to raise and I don't want that kind of influence in his life and I'm not visiting you, putting money on books, etc. and that shiot sure as hell ain't going to be in my house.  I don't look good in Orange and I don't want SWAT tearing up my shiot.

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 11:16 pm
Shhhhhiiiiiddddtttt...  You ain't lying.  When them fools come through doing a raid they be acting like they are gonna find contraband in a "shoe, a lamp, a forever stamp, or a coffee pot - they don't care what!  DEA I'm glad I'm glad I don't have to fugg wit yoooooooou..."
caramel_2
on 2/10/09 11:35 pm - New Haven, CT
I guess I have a diff. take on this subject I married a BAD BOY...I did the whole nine and then some! I was  attracted to the money, drugs, the status, u know the bonnie and Clyde thing.  We have been together for 6 years...were some of the things we did immature yes, did we regret some of the things we did YES, did it end up with JAIL TIME and me trooping a bid with him, YES! Did we change our life when he came home, YES.  I guess what I am really trying to say is a thug can change and not all of them are dum or immature or whoop ur ass and call u *****es and hoes.  That would def. not be going down in my camp!  I like that fact that he can protect me in a fight, i like the respect he gives me, I love the fact that when the day is over and we BOTH leave corporate America we could spark a spliff and just "chill".  I have nothing against a women who wants a straight-laced man, that's there prerogative, to each his own.  I just know for me I've dated all kinds I guess I was on some give a negro a chance *ish, and I was BORED to death with them, see me ..I need excitement because that's jus me.  I would not change anything that we have done together at all, I feel it groomed me to be the woman I am today.  I guess what I am trying to say is that I need a THUG and a Gentleman wrapped into ONE...jus my 2cents ya'll

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!


 

taw1975
on 2/10/09 11:39 pm - DFW, TX
That's cuz you are gangsta.

Can't wait to see you next week!

caramel_2
on 2/10/09 11:42 pm - New Haven, CT
Gangsta Boo...with my gansgta boogie...lol lol

I can't wait either..HOLLA!!!

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!


 

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 11:55 pm
I hear ya, Luv.  Thanks for your input.

See, I can protect a sista in a fight and I think I'm a good brotha, but if my Suga-Wooga is out there starting trouble and mess all the time or arguing over nonsense with the chick at the Dollar Store over a markdown in price and someone steps to that azz, she gotta just wear that azz-whoopin'. 

I'll fight for your honor, your right to be left alone, and if you're just right.  But if you're in the wrong then you'll be dead-wrong all by yourself.

Feel me?
caramel_2
on 2/11/09 12:08 am - New Haven, CT
I totally understand that! No one wants a ghetto princess bugging out at the drop of a dime jus cause he man is who he is! I feel u I think some people take it to the next level which messes it up for us thugcesses (if that's a word ) at home.  I think a REAL MAN wheather it be thug,staight-laced, corney, live,ulgy,short, tall, fine as hell, wants a women to present herself with class and dignity in the streets unless someone gets it twisted, now get it twisted does not mean fighting like a fool in the streets all the time either, because that's not ALWAYS nessacary....but I think you get the jist of what I am saying..I thinks jadakiss said it best when he said I need a ride or die Bytch..LOL LOL  

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!


 

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