Thug Luvas, Bad Bytches, and YOU!

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 9:25 pm

Ay Yo,

Why do some good women long for/lust for/live for bad boys?   Is it something about their walk, talk, style of dress, attitude (read: swagger), or their "F*ck it all..." outlook on life?  Why do good women stay with bad men?


Why do some good men risk a lifetime of happiness on a quickie/an affair with a chick on his job/at his church?  Is it all about timing, how pretty she looks, how freaky she is in bed, or her availability?  Why do some men feel that they these women have the best thrill-ride between her legs. 

In both cases, what turns good people on about these so-called bad people?  

 

Star Jones
on 2/10/09 9:30 pm - National Harbor, MD

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 9:33 pm
Don't even try it, Shani.  You're from DC, so I know you have a few case studies based on people you know. 

Share the knowledge, BabyGirl.  Share the knowledge.
Star Jones
on 2/10/09 9:42 pm - National Harbor, MD
Dag, my first time even throwing the popcorn smiley up and I get called out!!!! AND I'm FROM Philly!! I just reside in DC! LMAO

Well, I can only speak for myself. When I was younger I loved the appeal of bad boys. My dating pool mainly consisted of dudes that hustled. I liked the excitement, of course the money, and I guess the stigma it held being that dude's girl. After seeing many of my friends get popped, killed, not to mention for whatever reason give it up and then be broke........it kinda lost its appeal lol. I knew after my first marriage I didn't want to be in that life anymore.

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 10:36 pm
My bad, Shani!  You know how I get when I start drinking at work. 


So would you say that the appeal of the danger/money was what attracted you primarily? 
Star Jones
on 2/11/09 12:52 am - National Harbor, MD
The swagga/extrag. gifts/vacations/excitement....all that was what attracted me to them. But then I matured and differnt things attracted me or should I say held my attraction in a man. Now I'm always attracted to a man with street smarts I just don't need them to be IN the streets too. If that makes any sense? lol

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

(deactivated member)
on 2/11/09 2:56 am
That makes plenty of sense to me.    And I'm gonna tell your husband that you said you're still attracted to men with street smarts.  (yeah I got it twisted but who cares.)

Now let's sit back and eat some popcorn and drink some soda while we watch you squirm your way out of that one, Miss Missy!  
Star Jones
on 2/11/09 5:51 am - National Harbor, MD
HA! I can look but don't touch!!!!

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

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on 2/10/09 9:37 pm
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(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 9:42 pm

Some sistas don't even want anything to do with a good man, but a thug can "git it" all day and night. 

Some brothas can have that trophy wife at home but will sniff behind the chicks at work or at church hoping to find that freak-a-the week? 

Why?

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