My heart is breaking

While I know you are in pain right now.....this news is best delivered PRE-marriage. You will get through this!

((((CP))))

I'm hurting for you as I read this. I'll keep you in my prayers and thoughts.

Sorry your going thru so much pain CP its better you know now....... whatever  excuse he uses to get out of the relationship let his azz go hes just in the way of your true blessing....


LaVerne I now have to find a new shirt for work...... protein stains is not a good look

My Sistah, one day you are going to look back and thank God for bringing you through this.  God is working it out for your good, there are situations God will allow to occur and then He is just so good, that He flips that thang and then uses it for His glory.  So, while I am praying for your emtional healing, I anticipate your praise report for what God has done for you, through you and with you!

I am late getting to this thread But I feel your pain, I agree 100% with laverne he is not man enough to tell you the truth, and if he anit man enough for that then I would not even want him in my life, he does not deserve you or what you have to bring to the table....I hope this helps just a little bit and i pray for your heart to heal.

Wow.
Some of  ya'll are just cruxifying this cat big time.  How many times do we see all sorts of people using God as an "excuse" for their actions?  Good AND supposedly "bad"? 

Granted, if he has cold feet about being in the relationship, he SHOULD have been man enough to say that and say WHY. 

And if he's not really into her, he should had said that, too.  But then, how DO you tell someone you truly care for that you're not truly into them without hurting them?  That's a difficult thing to do.  If ur not into the person, yeah, its easy...especially for the more "evil" spirited people in the world. 

However, sometimes a bit of honesty is good, even if it DOES hurt that person's feelings.  At least then you both know what the deal is and can go your own ways, rather than wishing/hoping/praying, etc, if you go that way. 

I don't believe he is being "crucified" I believe we are seriously doubting what he is saying. *I* personally have a low tolerence for BS. And I think if you don't want to date anymore then you should just keep it real and say. Hey I thought this would work out but its not. Can we remain friends? Don't go bringing God into it.

Side Note: I also don't like to hear people blaming god for all the crap going on in the world either. Murders, diseases, wars... God is a loving god and he does not cause all of this.

Hey lady,

Sorry you are going through this situation.  This brother: 1. Was 'zooming' you all along;  2. He just was not that into you; 3. Went along for the ride...and decided that he was at the end of the line with your relationship; 4. Is hearing voices...and "thinks" they are God speaking to him, when all along he was only talking the talk and not walking the walk.

Bottom line is...leave him alone...get your cry out...and keep it moving.  If it is meant to be, God will bring YOU to the man for you.

Praying for heart peace for you,

DD

 I am so sorry for your loss Princess...I pray that the angles stay by your side during this differcult time.

Caribbean Princess dry your eyes take a deep breath, say a prayer and be still.  If this was the man God sent to you (for you) he would have had 100% of the characteristics that you prayed for not 95%.  Most importantly if this was the man that God sent you this would not be happening.

Don't let this individual use God as an excuse to get out of this relationship.  People blame all kinds of things on God that they don't have the courage to take ownership of.  What God has for you is for you.  Peace & Blessings