SO Rude!
I've been on this site for over a year now. But in the recent months I've become more active online. My question is why are there people on OH site that are rude to other people? I thought we all where on here for a common reason. I've spoke with other people up here, And I was told so many bad things, that other people send in messages to people being rude and ignorant. Why can't we all get along people?
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Have you experienced a rude and ignorant comment from someone on OH? or are you just asking because of hearsay? Did the person tell you why someone else was ignorant or rude? I mean we are all adults; all individuals with our own opinions, but there had to be a reason behind the rude and ignorant comment.
Have you experienced a rude and ignorant comment from someone on OH? or are you just asking because of hearsay? Did the person tell you why someone else was ignorant or rude? I mean we are all adults; all individuals with our own opinions, but there had to be a reason behind the rude and ignorant comment.
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Hi & Thank you. I haven't experience a rude comment. i was just asking.because of hearsay, People have told me and I've read some rude comments people would post on there pages. But u are so right there has to be something to cause someone to be rude. Most of the people I speak to up here are pretty friendly.
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I hope you don't experience anyone's rudeness but as Wonka said take what you need and leave the rest. We are all here to get wl support; the other stuff is entertainment. And also when you're on the internet and not speaking to someone face to face; the comment can be taken out of context. Good luck on your upcoming surgery!
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Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
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Here's my .02.....
1. Folks can hide behind a .
2. Some use an alter ego when on the .
3. Folks have beef on OH just the same as real life.
4. Stop and come on in and drink the SF Kool-Aid.
Take what you need and leave the rest behind. Yes, we are all here for a common reason, but free will (from behind a ) can make a mofo say some real ignorant mess. I will admit to when I read some posts, but instead I skip them or leave it to others to tell folks how they really feel. Example:
1. I just had surgery - when can I drink alcohol?
Wonka on OH may reply wait a year or to follow your surgeon's instructions. Wonka on the streets will ask you if you have lost your ever loving mind? You need to take your "honeymoon" time and work the heck out of your tool. Don't bother with the empty calories.
2. I just had surgery - when can I smoke?
Wonka on OH will wait for a WLS smoker to post problems from smoking after surgery. Wonka on the streets will wish lice on folks who say it's okay in moderation.
3. I just had surgery - can I lose at least 100lbs in a month?
Wonka on OH will tell you anything is possible. Wonka on the streets wants to know the names of the surgeons out there claiming to produce "miracles" so that I can report them to the licensing boards.
4. I just had surgery - when can I eat real food?
Wonka on OH will tell you to follow your surgeon's/NUT instructions. Wonka on the street will again and wonder why some folks only use OH as their ONLY learning tool.
5. I just had surgery - I'm having terrible pains. Can I take MOTRIN?
Both Wonkas will tell you to call your surgeon in the car while you're on your way to the ER. Also, both Wonkas will
Rudeness can sometimes equate honesty. And if it's still ignorant, use the block button.
Good Luck on your upcoming surgery.
WonkaD
1. Folks can hide behind a .
2. Some use an alter ego when on the .
3. Folks have beef on OH just the same as real life.
4. Stop and come on in and drink the SF Kool-Aid.
Take what you need and leave the rest behind. Yes, we are all here for a common reason, but free will (from behind a ) can make a mofo say some real ignorant mess. I will admit to when I read some posts, but instead I skip them or leave it to others to tell folks how they really feel. Example:
1. I just had surgery - when can I drink alcohol?
Wonka on OH may reply wait a year or to follow your surgeon's instructions. Wonka on the streets will ask you if you have lost your ever loving mind? You need to take your "honeymoon" time and work the heck out of your tool. Don't bother with the empty calories.
2. I just had surgery - when can I smoke?
Wonka on OH will wait for a WLS smoker to post problems from smoking after surgery. Wonka on the streets will wish lice on folks who say it's okay in moderation.
3. I just had surgery - can I lose at least 100lbs in a month?
Wonka on OH will tell you anything is possible. Wonka on the streets wants to know the names of the surgeons out there claiming to produce "miracles" so that I can report them to the licensing boards.
4. I just had surgery - when can I eat real food?
Wonka on OH will tell you to follow your surgeon's/NUT instructions. Wonka on the street will again and wonder why some folks only use OH as their ONLY learning tool.
5. I just had surgery - I'm having terrible pains. Can I take MOTRIN?
Both Wonkas will tell you to call your surgeon in the car while you're on your way to the ER. Also, both Wonkas will
Rudeness can sometimes equate honesty. And if it's still ignorant, use the block button.
Good Luck on your upcoming surgery.
WonkaD
LOL u are so funny but true.. I've read bizarre questions up here and can't believe what people ask... One question a guy had ask was he was 2 weeks out from RNY surgery and tried to eat a turkey bacon cheeseburger WTF! & he wonder why he was throwing up for hours.. I wouldn't even dare try to eat something like that so early after surgery. Thank you so much for responding to my comments and thank you 28 days left till my big day I'm still nervous but I'm in this to win this!
God is good all the time!
God is good all the time!
God is good all the time!
Wait a minute...
you mean I can't..
1. Get drunk to celebrate my surgery last week?
2. Have a cigar after my Henny?
3. Eat a great big T-Bone Steak?
4. Lose 100 pounds in the month AFTER I have this amazing "easy way out"?
5. or Take a Motin for the headache and tummy ache I got from all that drinking and eating?
Why I never.......lol
All jokes aside, though, Good luck with the upcoming surgery.
Wonka is right, some ppl DO develop instant courage to say what they ordinarily wouldn't because they are hiding behind a keyboard...that's not just this site but nearly EVERY internet location.
Some DO have alter ego's here. Mealy-mouthed, person who is walked all over in real life; Super Human Super Hero in Cyberland....again, like in many other sites.
And, because these are fellow humans (for the most part-lol) that we are dealing with, not everyone is going to get along harmoniously. Just like in the three-dimensional world.
you mean I can't..
1. Get drunk to celebrate my surgery last week?
2. Have a cigar after my Henny?
3. Eat a great big T-Bone Steak?
4. Lose 100 pounds in the month AFTER I have this amazing "easy way out"?
5. or Take a Motin for the headache and tummy ache I got from all that drinking and eating?
Why I never.......lol
All jokes aside, though, Good luck with the upcoming surgery.
Wonka is right, some ppl DO develop instant courage to say what they ordinarily wouldn't because they are hiding behind a keyboard...that's not just this site but nearly EVERY internet location.
Some DO have alter ego's here. Mealy-mouthed, person who is walked all over in real life; Super Human Super Hero in Cyberland....again, like in many other sites.
And, because these are fellow humans (for the most part-lol) that we are dealing with, not everyone is going to get along harmoniously. Just like in the three-dimensional world.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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