To all of my OGG/LGBT/down wit OPP/whatever... Sistas

ValueMe
on 2/4/09 5:38 am
You may substitute a woman in the senerio. BUT don't fool yourself about your down low seneriowith men. These are not 5 or 6 guys who have a weekly poker game and sex each other instead of playing poker...neither is it that simple with women; Identiy development is  complicated. Question: Did you see Larry King's interview with former Pastor Haggard, clearly, his orientation is homosexual but he Identifies as hetro. He believes that homosexuality is a sin, but he could not stop having sex with men, he said everyday he fights thinking about being with men (he has been married 30 years to a woman and has 5 kids). His development (Spiritual, Emotional...will not allow him to Identify as Homosexual). Do you think he is just in the "closet", he can't be, we all know about him. You may not realize how profound your questions are, there are people that have studied and continue to research just your questions...that's why you have so many responses>>>complicated stuff.


Relative to the avatar, I could be a hypocrite and put up a flower or sunset or flowing waters or a cartoon character or cut and paste a false pic from the Internet (like many people do), but I won't. Those who get to know me are and will be satisfied. I'm satisfied and that's what's important. I am self accepting and self affirming, just looking to learn and make some friends on my journey in Life and along this particular path I'm on now (WLS). I'm not looking to get in your world, just wanna converse via word and exchange ideas in my free time with people of a similar mindset.


I give you credit, you broke your rule for me, what are you feeling about me to make you do that...even behind a key board you can feel something (go with the feeling). Be good Double_Ayy.

 

 

Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good! 
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

 

 

(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 6:03 am
"You may substitute a woman in the senerio. BUT don't fool yourself about your down low seneriowith men."
 
I don't fool myself.  The topic was about women and their so-called labels not men.  I was just playing talk show host for a second and trying to keep you on topic.  No disrespect.

"These are not 5 or 6 guys who have a weekly poker game and sex each other instead of playing poker...neither is it that simple with women; Identiy development is  complicated."
 
Indeed it is, hence the number of various responses.

"Question: Did you see Larry King's interview with former Pastor Haggard,"
 
No but I heard about it.

"clearly, his orientation is homosexual but he Identifies as hetro. He believes that homosexuality is a sin, but he could not stop having sex with men, he said everyday he fights thinking about being with men (he has been married 30 years to a woman and has 5 kids). His development (Spiritual, Emotional...will not allow him to Identify as Homosexual). Do you think he is just in the "closet", he can't be, we all know about him."
 
Ted Haggard, in my opinion is gay.  No surprise there right.  However, the reason he sounds like a complete idiot when he mentions homosexuals and homosexuality is because he has been indoctrinated by the beliefs of the church he started.  He's like OJ was before the last arrest.  OJ thought that Hollywood was going to come calling him again for another Naked Gun movie installment.  That's why he never left the states.  Ted thinks he can runaway and get "straight" and come back and lead his flock.  Nope.

"You may not realize how profound your questions are, there are people that have studied and continue to research just your questions...that's why you have so many responses>>>complicated stuff."

Hey I'm no psychologist and I don't play one on BAF-TV but I do know that people do have interesting things to say about this particular topic and I think they should say them. 


"Relative to the avatar, I could be a hypocrite and put up a flower or sunset or flowing waters or a cartoon character or cut and paste a false pic from the Internet (like many people do), but I won't."
 
Good for you.  Smart.

"Those who get to know me are and will be satisfied. I'm satisfied and that's what's important. I am self accepting and self affirming, just looking to learn and make some friends on my journey in Life and along this particular path I'm on now (WLS). I'm not looking to get in your world, just wanna converse via word and exchange ideas in my free time with people of a similar mindset."

Hey, do you...


"I give you credit, you broke your rule for me, what are you feeling about me to make you do that...even behind a key board you can feel something (go with the feeling). Be good Double_Ayy."

Nicca, are you out of your fuggin mind?  Feeling about you?!  Man... I don't even know you.  Have a nice day and keep it moving aiight before I really cuss your azz out.  Peace.

HelpMeRhonda !!
on 2/4/09 6:39 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
 I am playing catch-up BUT Double-Ayy I SWEAR you remind me of my uncle.... You are TRULY a real mofo....
(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 6:53 am
 Solid!
Lavender
on 2/4/09 6:59 am - Northern, CA
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<pulling you by the ear and dragging your A to the corner AAAAAAROON!

 

ValueMe
on 2/4/09 7:19 am



YOU finally GOT ALL of IT, YOU GOT IT!!! !!! Well, well Maybe You got it...but you on your way. 
HINT: I ain't GOT no Avatar!!!

 

 

Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good! 
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

 

 

sunnshyne29
on 2/4/09 5:01 am - Baltimore, MD
well let me come from under this chair.  I must say that I found this conversation rather interesting.  But I appauled females who can be free in their sexuality and no consider or label themselves in a way that others look down upon.  I proclaimed that 2009 I do what makes me happy today not my family, not my inner circle, not my etended family and friends or society. Life is too short, If I wanna do it that's what I am gonna do....
(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 7:55 am - Baltimore, MD
lets see....there are so many smileys i could use right about now to describe how much i'm enjoying this convo....


                                                                     




                                                                             
(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 8:41 am
Big Sam,

What it do, Playa?  What it do? 

Go ahead and jump into this one why don't ya?  Give us the true Playas Point of View.
jcheryld
on 2/4/09 11:57 am
On February 4, 2009 at 3:55 PM Pacific Time, Big_Sam wrote:
lets see....there are so many smileys i could use right about now to describe how much i'm enjoying this convo....


                                                                     




                                                                             
The only one that comes to my mind is  LOL
Doesn't this schitt belong on the sex boards? Yall have your fun...
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