whatever... Sistas

Dimple Donna
on 2/4/09 3:58 am - Chicago, IL

Hey Dedee - Lemme jump up with this ^5 for you child! That's EXACTLY what I said...and yes, you're right - Tira should definitely be on here answering this question! Although I suspect there are more OGGs and those who like 3-somes who are married and on BAF - but they just aren't saying anything.

My only point is to ensure that this young lady understands that men DO marry women who think out of the norm about sexual relations (norm meaning man/woman...not man/man/woman or woman/woman/man..or bi relationships)

I just wanted to explain to her that she is DEAD WRONG in her thinking!

DD

I choose to love myself, live life to the fullest, and encourage others to liberate themselves!

Dedee
on 2/4/09 4:06 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Society and sheltered homes has fooled so mannnnnny people....

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 4:05 am

RNY on 10/02/08

Now DeeDee, could the reason that y'all stayed together so long be attributed to the fact that you "broke him off something proper like" when y'all went out that first time or because after that first encounter y'all were able to get all of the uncomfortable BS out of the way and just be yourselves from then on out?

Dedee
on 2/4/09 4:17 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Nope, the reason is/was cause I was REAL.

He asked me lots of questions....I answered them.....he asked "are you sure you want to do this?"

I replied, "YES, and if we never see each other again SO BE IT!"

I met him in Janurary 1994 (Superbowl Sunday).....I saw him off and on for six months....I'm a tomboy.....we talked sports and schitt.......but then in June, he asked me out for a date.....I accepted.....he was 2 hours late....I did not care.....I had an agenda, as did he......I don't think either of us expected for it to be anything serious.......except acting on an attraction/physical desire......but oh well ~laughing~

I detest the word *****HOE!!! Who defined that term? Who decides the number to determine the status? Society is cruel and society is the biggest, baddest ***** that ever existed!

I never play by society rules. I make my own rules and damn all who looks down on me.....I'm comfy with my WHO! ~wink~

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

(deactivated member)
on 2/4/09 4:47 am

RNY on 10/02/08

I can dig it.

As long as we keep it real then we can all work to keep it right.

MrBaker870
on 2/5/09 12:18 am - Little Rock, AR

3333333333333333333333333333

Dedee
on 2/5/09 3:59 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Shud da hell up, Nate ~roll eyes~ LOL

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

taw1975
on 2/4/09 4:28 am - DFW, TX

Lap Band on 11/14/06

My son's father was going to be a "what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" literally. I was going to have me a sin city moment.

We were together for almost 5 years.