To all of my OGG/LGBT/down wit OPP/whatever... Sistas

Excuse me...D  from this statement,  you act like the whole sexual act for women is about pleasing their husbands.  Not !!!

How can a man decide that he wants to  " explore " another side of his
wife's or girlfriends sexuality.

Thats for the woman to ponder, and act on if she so desires. 

Men kill me talking about what they want to go down in the bedroom concerning their wife or girlfriend.....but are so quick to say what they themselves wont do.   

We,  as woman can do what we want with our  " stuff "   

If a man shares with his woman that he is curious to see her with another woman and the woman does it....its cause she WANTED to.  

No man around has that much power.   Never have...never will !

No, no, no...

I used that scenario because someone said earlier that a husband would not approach his wife for a threesome because he married her under the belief that she was a "nice girl".  So I replied with "but what if he approached her that way after they were married...yadda, yadda, yadda..."

No disrepect, Luv. 

I was just proposing a scenario to challenge the whole "nice girl" myth.   I agree it's your stuff.  Do with it what you want and will.  I'm good with that.   

Some nice girls like it spicy. And thats ok too.... 

No disrespect taken...just wanted to clarify some things.

I can dig it, Ma.  Clarity is a good thing. 

Baby girl...don't be naive about whether men marry women "like that"... they do, ALL THE TIME!  There are so many married couples who "swing" these days...don't believe for a minute those men don't take these women home to momma...they do!  Now momma may not know about their swinging/freak tendencies...but trust and believe, a man ain't spilling his guts about his wife being into the things that they as a couple like to do.

Open your eyes, love...it's happening EVERY day!!!

DD

(Giving Donna ^5 on the low)



Yep.  That's what I had heard...

Me, too!!!  

And...you tell me what man doesn't want a lady in the streets and a FREAK 'EM in the sheets?!?!

Shootz...the freakier the better...for some of y'all...and I am telling you what I KNOW!!! Bwahahaaaa!!!!

Awww Jiggit! 

Donna's done let the cat out of the bag! (Ebonically speaking!) 

Donna is a free eek!
Donna is a free eek!

Go Donna...  Shake ya boo-tay!
It's ya birthday! Have it your way!
Smack ya booty cheeks.  Like a big freak.

Aww hush up...where'd you read dat?

Whew, I came to BAF on a "hot topic" day.....but what are "women like that?"

People always said, "Make a man wait before you hunch him and he will always respect you."

I waited over 3 years and the *****ass left me dayum near 3 months later.

My next boyfriend, I hunched on the first date....and today we celebrate 9 years of marriage....Sunday, we celebrated 15 years of knowing each other.....and in June, we will celebrate the first time 15 years ago we hunched (June 24th to be exact).

See, what I have learned in life is PREFERENCES.  Some men, just like some women, are fake as hell.

That is when we can label them, girls and boys, versus women and men.

I would love to see what my girl Vice has to say about "they certainly don't marry them."