OGG/LGBT & OGG friendly DC Meet and Greet attendees!!!

 We cool.

"OGG" is a term that is used on this board for the ladies that dip and dabble on the "other side".

Oh is that what it means??? 

Dip and dabble on the other side, 

I was trying to be diplomatic as possible, LOL. 

Hey, I got a question:  If a woman "dips and dabbles" on the other side does that make her Gay or Lesbian?   Or is it more of mindset to match the physical to making a woman Gay or Lesbian? 

Isn't Gay/Lesbian...the same thing?? 

And this is just MY opinion...but usually when referring to women involved with other women people use the term LESBIAN.  And usually when referring to men involved with other men people use the term GAY....just MY opinion.

Now when you go to the other side and come back...then people use the term BI-SEXUAL.

NO,  when you go to the other side and come back that is a DRIVE BY,  GAY FOR PLAY, etc....

WHAT

Now I'm thoroughly confused.  Thanks.

I only asked because I often hear people refer to female gays as Lesbians or GAY.  Sometimes I'll hear them say things like, "She ain't Gay-Gay; she just does her thing and it's all good."  So that led me to think that if a woman were truly Gay/Lesbian then she must possess a certain mindset or understanding about herself to accompany the physical side of being Gay/Lesbian because, in my uneducated opinion, if it were just about, for example, handholding and kissing then could that really be labelled a Lesbian act?