People Are Acting Funny

it is a hater's job to hate.  so don't let them doing their job prevent you from doing your job (c) Big_Sam

your job is to make sure you live the best life you can live. you gotta make sure today is a little bit better than yesterday while planning to make tomorrow your best day ever.

that hater's job is to hate on the moves the next man is makin while makin very few moves of their own.

so just be content to let everyone do their respective jobs.

When people look and feel good about themselves it's like a stimulus package for haters

You are beautiful and since we are in a recession,  I would say that you are doing your part for the economy by keeping the haters employed. Thanks Isa!

I admit that it was kind of hurtful the way people changed towards me, cause to me I was still the same old Taye , so why were they acting all brand new .....time passed and I learned to ignore the haters, doubters, and gossipers....now I just smile and keep it moving

I'm wondering what type of responses I will receive when I return to work.  I have the pleasure of working with my two best friends both of which are plus size.  One is considering WLS the other is a "lightweight" and have been nothing but supportive.  My other dear friend had WLS almost ten years ago and is my biggest cheerleader.  It seems too good to be true at the moment, but what happens when the weight really starts to come off??? 

I say let your haters be your motivators!

Do you! As my great grandma used to say....Let folks run their mouth and you run your business!

Alicia

sometimes you just need to tell them to have a coke and a smile.....

sometimes you just need to tell them to have a coke and a smile.....

Girl you better keep your head up and keep looking straight ahead and don't worry about them folks.  I have learn (as David said) that the more weight you loose the more friends you will loose, but you are gaining so much more. 

Chile, let me tell you, let me tell you...my "girls" who I ALWAYS vacation with...WOOOLAWD!!  ok, imma make this short as possible and to the point.  I HAD ALWAYS been the LARGEST, some were big girls but not like me, well fast forward 2 years and minus 185lbs. where I am now about the same size as the smallest.  OH I was the worst person in life, "I thought I was better than everyone else", "I thought I was better looking than everyone else", "Every man don't want me", oh goodness it goes on and on.   HELLO!!! I ALWAYS walk with my head up high and have my swagger...folks who know me will tell you they can always spot me by my walk.  I have always thought I was the SHYT, but just because I lost a lil weight...now you wanna critize me...LMAO!!

SO, I said my peace and kept it moving and that's what you have to do.

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Youlanda