People Are Acting Funny

Good Afternoon BAF...I have been busy w/ work allday but had to mention something...I personally thought that I had always been attractive but at my biggest (294) I did not feel like myself...My hair has been growing and is now jet black and very lengthy and I wear the mess out of my MAC make up now and my clothes are fitting great...I am now @ 249...I feel wonderful and look wonderful and it shows. Lately people have been acting funny...I could care less but I thought it was interested...2 of my co workers in my age range are the most evident... I already have a higher position than them both and everything is going great in my life and now they are acting a mess...Not really talking to me and if they do it is negative... I love it though because it shows how people are...The only thing I can think of to do is keep looking cute and continue losing weight...Give the haters what they need...A wake up call...

How do you handle your haters?

You got to be doin something right girl.  I say send your haters a thank you card for recognizing your the hotness....ok that might just come off as conceited.


~Maxine

I haven't even had surgery yet, and I already encounter haters.  I'm not sure why, but because of my work environment I feel that it has a lot to do with the fact that I am not a constant complainer, I try and keep it professional with management because that's how you get ahead, not by whining and complaining and saying whatever comes to mind to your boss.  Plus I don't let my weight stop me from looking my best, I'm a MAC queen now, and I'm sure it will only get better as I become healthier.

How do I handle them?  I smile at them every morning and tell them to get better,

I know exactly what you mean.  Someone told me told that I lost to much and should be careful not to get too skinny

And I would tell them to go blank themselves...lol...I am trying to get down to 145-150 and my family has already told me that was too small...I could care less...

I didnt.  And that made them even more green with envy. 

You are beautiful....was before the surgery,  and will continue to be after.

Let them people act like monkeys and trip all over themselves to catch a glimpse of you shine.......for all you care.

This is your opportunity -   Let No one or nothing make you take your eyes  off  the prize.  

Congrats on the weight you've loss so far...continued blessings

Awww Pretty Plum...You sure did make my day...I am so humble and thankful about my surgery... I am still kind and considerate and much more loving...I give everybody their props and people just hate on me fo nothing...I am nothing major no threat but I guess they do not think so.

On the flipside there are many supportive people in my life, family, friends, and most of my co workers are cool.

girl do like I do and let em hate really give them something to hate on by doing you even more

I have found out the more weight  you lose the more friends you lose, and the more haters you gain!!! I ignore my haters cause I don't want them to tell them about something that I know that they are already doing...Let them always be on the sideline while I am always in the GAME!!!!!!

Girl you are doing you! For the most part everyone has been so supportive at work...at least to my face which is all that matters except for my supervisor she has hated since the weight began to shed.  It only gets better for you and worse for them I'm with Q&A send them a thank you card and keep stepping cause you're beautiful now so I wanna see what they talking about when anotehr 80 lbs fall off.