Naked Vs. Clothes On

I can understand...not to mention people can have plastics and still not feel 100% about themselves...That is my dream- to one day wear a bikini...

As a pre-op, I had decided that I did not want to have PS. Now that I am post-op, I realize that I will need to get some stuff done. I look good with clothes on, and not too bad with them off, but I am self-conscious about the extra skin and the way my chest has deflated. I also want to have kids in the next 5 years, so I will have to see how I can work the PS around that. Maybe I will get the other stuff done and wait on the TT until after I have kids. I think it is different for a single person, and especially for me. I'm not really confident when it comes to guys anyway, and I know the extra skin will be steady on my mind when the time come to shed the clothes.

I agree 110% with many things that you said...Prior to RNY I talked with many surgeons and had prices and started saving money and everything but because my fiancee really wanted a baby Id ecided I should put things on hold, lose my weight, and then have a baby and worry about the PS later...We will see...a

I have some junk that I don't like but I'm not depressed about it for so long I like you looked horribl both naked and w/ clothes to actually look good with my clothes on is great. My hubby don't complain at all lol.   I cant do the girldes  I can't stand them, so right now I just buy things to flatter my shape I got (what a difference from trying to hide how big I am) Now, this was my winter of thin where layers work wonders lol
I don't know how I'll be talking come August with the sundresses, shorts, and tanks.
 I think that if I work out a little bit more some of this would not be an issue  However I would not do any PS until after I have at least one child which won't be for another couple of years.

So true..I would settle for looking good with clothes on and not so great naked then prior to surgery when you felt some kind of way both about how you looked.

Before surgery I hated the way I looked in & out of cloths but I must say I'm loving all of me now in & out of cloths , I have had no cosmetic surgery at all just good genes I guess and I love to show off the new body in swimsuits and tight jeans.

I saw you in your bikini and must say you look great...I saw a few people that looked like they needed no plastics after RNY and you happen to be one of them.

Thank you, and this is after 3 kids (2 grown) and I'm a 60's baby  all I can say is that I am truly blessed

I look  good in clothes So I am told.  Only the wife sees me nake she is cool with it so no PS for me. But have thougth about it

My man is cool with everything also but he thinks I need some help on the back side..lol