Naked Vs. Clothes On

Good Morning BAF

I feel that prior to surgery I looked horrible both Naked and w/ Clothes on...I still felt good about myself because I love me...I notice that on the RNY board many women lose A LOT of weight and still are depressed and miserable because of how they look with the clothes off...In turn cosmetic surgery is the only option which I am all for...How do you feel about it...

Personally I would probably have a little PS but want to have a baby first in like 2 years...I would prefer to look better in my clothes because that is what I see most...I only see myself naked for a short period and my man loves me to pieces either way...If I was single it might be a different story...What do you guys think.

Ok, real talk... Have you seen the black *****s?  The sisters in there be having stretch marks, all kinds of scars, and cellulite. Yet, the movies sell like hot cake and the brothers think they are sexy.  I think most of the times we are the hardest on ourselves.  I've had stretch marks since middle school so they are just a part of me.  Right now I'm not planning on having any cosmetic surgery but hey you never know but um I don't know how long it's going to take for me to pay for this rny I just had so I'll just for now.  I already got bat wings so I'm just letting them flap...they ain't hurting nobody...lol

I agree Apple...It is not that deep  that I would lose sleep over it but if it is something I want I would strive for it...I would hate to overcome obesity just to be depressed about something else that is way more out of your control to handle.

I believe in plastic surgery for the right reasons and I can understand you wanting to have your body right....so once you have had a few kids ( I know you said maybe one but you never know..lol), I say if you can afford it, go for it.  You might want to shy away from a facelift though because I don't want anyone looking like Kenny Rogers...lol

Kenny Rogers..lol..Prior to RNY I DID NOT want kids...I have 5 younger siblings so you could probably imagine why...But because of my spouse I will give him one or none...We have to sign a contract...lol...

lol on that contract.  When I was younger, I had planned on having 4 kids but I just turned 31 and am nowhere close to marriage so if I can spit out  1 or 2 before 40, I'll be good.

@ I think most of the times we are the hardest on ourselves.

I am working on not being soooo hard on myself.  I had a TT in 2005 and I am considering getting my "back fat" removed.  I am working out and it has gone down tremendously.  We'll see.

I look like a H.A.M .with no clothes but I don't have a problem with it. 
Maybe because I'm older..  I was prepared for everything to go South anyway...LOL

I am single, but I look at it like this.....if you love me, you will love ALL of me...the good, the bad, AND the ugly!  LOL

I don't foresee plastics in my future.....not a big fan of pain!  But I don't knock anyone who chooses to do it.

Hi Kim, I feel kind of comfortable already and plastics is something that is a so so thing for me...More so scared of the pain also...

I feel like I look great in my clothes.  The only person to see me outside of my clothes is the BF .....he is cool with it so its not a big issue for me.   Plus after my second kid I knew I wasnt wearing a bikini again lol