Am I to sensitive about xes???

I'm going to be honest with you...Your husband probably feels like he is with a different person sexually since you have lost weight.  There may be things that you can do now that you couldnt do 50 pounds ago.  Also, some men get off on confidence and he probably can see that you are more confident now. 

This is probably true.

Hello yall.......
my husband is the same way, it seems like he is horny all the time. 

Don't worry about other people girl, just focus on yourself.  I have to learn to do the same thing.  I get so caught up on what other people say about me.  Now some people have been calling me "bag lady" because my clothes are getting big.  I just ignore them........because my feelings get hurt real easy.

My feelings do get hurt easy so I will have to learn how to ignore people better. 

  OK, I am not the best to give advice because my husband and I split after the surgery but I would disagree that you should talk to him about it.

Before anyone jumps on me, let me just say that all to often we as women want to talk about how we feel, but your husband may mis-interpret that conversation as rejection or you being too sensitive (as you mention above).

A couple of things change with weight loss, your energy level increases as well as your flexibility and your confidence.  He may just be naturally reacting to what has changed in you.  That doesn't mean he wasn't in to you before or that he was less attracted or more attracted to you because you lost weight.  As you say he always proclaimed it was great!  He is proclaiming it now and showing with his actions.  Maybe he thinks because of the PHYSICAL change you now have the STAMINA to hang with multiple times a day.  I'm just saying I wore out easy as a bigger girl, im the freaking energizer bunny now.  Before talking to HIM I would have a little talk with myself and try and determine 1) Is it my own insecurity  2) Did I devalue myself before and now attach more value to myself small 3) Are people treating you differently or are you paying more attention now.

I have been on the other side and had someone think I was different but in actuallity they were the one that changed.  I loved them before and after.  They attached a sentiment to my actions that was never there.  JMO...

Your reply definitely gave me something to think about. Thanks

why ask why?  i say be happy that someone wants to get it on with you several times a day.  you may be over thinking this.  who cares what life was like 50lbs ago.  enjoy life as it is right now.

matter fact, log off and give that man some lovin 

matter fact, log off and give that man some lovin 

I say Leave well enough alone...

Dont you like the new you  better since the 50lb weight loss? Well what's wrong with him liking the new you? I would be absolutely flattered just knowing that the changes I have made in my life turns my husband on, and gets him hot and bothered three times a day!!!

Just think how you would feel if he didnt like the change and wouldnt touch you at all!!!