Am I to sensitive about xes???

Here is my situation pre-op my husband was chasing me around a couple times a week trying to get some.  Now post-op and almost fifty pounds lighter he wants it everyday multiple times  a day.  I am just a little disturb by this because he is acting like it is so good now.  What was wrong with it before he always proclaimed it was great.  I am really going through it right now with people especially my husband treating me like I am a better person now that I am losing weight. Am I being overly sensitive because I do not want to be bother with people who treat me differently now that I am losing weight including my husband?

Let me say this...TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND!! Ask HIM what is different about you now, versus prior to your surgery.  He may very well respond that he finds you EVEN MORE ATTRACTIVE, SEXIER THAN BEFORE!  Even if the sex was great before...and he has said so...but he wants you more now - COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS, LOVE!!!  He IS that much into you!

Also, believe me when I tell you - you will lose friends during your weightloss journey...so be prepared for it.  You're not being overly sensitive...but you are realizing that people are treating you differently - and guess what? They will say the same about you.

JMHO...

Your words are so true in my life right now.  I am about to drop alot of people because of the backend complements they give me. Like you are going to be so beauiful.  I am already beautiful now I will be healthy and beautiful.  I will definiteyl talk to my husband about this but he always says you are too sensitive. 

I just wanted to say that as we lose weight we change also. Maybe he is responding to a change in you. Maybe you are happier as the weight is coming off or more confident. This could be the cause of the increase in interest...just a thought.

This could be true never really though about it that way.  I am happier I must admit. That is why I posted to get others take on this issue I am having who have had wls.

Hey HF

Just wanted you to know I am sooooo proud of you!  Keep up the good work!  I can't answer that sex question; but it is true about losing friends.  I lost someone I considered a good friend it hurt a lot but I definitely learned about people!!

Thank you

can i say this with out stepping on your toes, and that is you are different,,,,,you maybe the same person on the inside but, your outward appearance has changed and you have to expect people to react to that....some say the most stupidest things and some may say the most geniune but, if you can try and take it with a grain of salt and just be happy with in yourself it is possible you can just roll with it.

now question for you are you enjoying the multiply times a day? and if your answer is "Yes" then please ENJOY IT.....it surely will help with the weightloss as well.  if your anwer is "no" uh oh then i don't have reply for that one (smile)

but, i would suggest talking it out with your hubby and let him be excited about the "new" you  because changes are coming....work it out!

best wishes to you

I am definitely enjoy the whole experience but I still have in the back mind what was wrong with me before that you did not want me like this.  I will relax and talk to him. Thanks

embrace the new you, as he wants too...this weightloss is surely a head trip....emotional as wel as physicall....you could also possibly be experiencing hormonal changes that may make you sensitive, i don't know