Relationship Question

Hi Dalexis.  I agree with Lena and MsCleo.   You can be oblivious to the what the other personis planning, which is to leave the relationship.  But there were probably signs somewhere in the past.  Maybe an argument or some relationship neglect.  When it happens like that it is a build up, then the person just ends it.  Not everybody flys off the handle acting a hot-headed fool, ya know.  Some people grow very cold.

In the end it is better to be a good mate in any realtionship.  Some people are very self-serving and that contributed to their woes. 

Just my 2cent.

Who is Dewayne?  Is Dalexis and Dewayne one in the same?

Hey, sweetie,
That's DWAYNE. lol.  (Don't worry, I've been called everything from David to Darryl) and yes, we are the same person. LOL.

Man sometimes you have to talk to that elephant in the room.........

You can't duck your head in the sand all the time, I think its there. Especially if your a creature of habit and those four hour convos turn into 4 minutes.......its a problem. REALLLL BAD PROBLEM!!

Thats why I tackle shid from the JUMP even if it isn't that tactful or easy to deal w/. I take it as being man enough to address the issue right from the start........

Character is made through adversity..........be it the character of a person or a relationship.

I can say my current relationship/situation has STRONG character simply b/c me and shawty address issues from the beginning......either it will break you or make you stronger.

WHATS GOOD ELB........
GET AT YA BOY!