Inspiration - Hater

I was there in 05 with my friends. We had a blast. Last year I went to the Hampton Jazz Fest.

Hi Shani,

I've wanted to have a Louisiana Meet & Greet and invite everyone either to Mardi Gras, Essence Festival or the Bayou Classic.  I will be in contact with the both of you and we maybe we can see each other during the Essence Festival.

Faith that sounds like a plan! I need to start scoping plane tickets now. Last time I went I stayed at the W hotel and loved it, I might stay there again.

thanks Faith, had to run out with my daughter to the mall.

I didn't think that this would ever happen to me, but it has. I only told about 5 of my really close friends....well I thought they were. One friend in particular is very overweight and I guess I have been her fat buddy. Well, I was bored one night and was going through her facebook page last week. I noticed that a few weeks after I had my surgery her status message was ".....thinks people that have weight loss surgery are cheaters" I couldn't believe it. But then I started thinking about it all. She never came to see me since I had the surgery, hasn't called me a lot since, and when she did call never asked about the surgery or how much weight I lost. Hmmmmm.........

Yep, I can relate for sure.  It really hurts, you would think that they would be in your corner seeing as some are in the same situation.   One of my girls friends for 19 years, gives me the causual hello and moves on.

Yep, sounds like a hater to me. That's unfortunate. Try not to let her eat all of your hotness dust up as you've left her on the fat buddy bench!

I had to forward this email onto my family. I love it! Thank you for sharing. As I take this new life journey, I'm already learning who the haters are!