Inspiration - Hater

ShowStopper ..
on 1/24/09 4:15 am, edited 1/24/09 10:06 am
A Tip for our newbies - On this journey as I have personally experienced, your life will change, mine for the better.  You are going to be hurt and disapointed by people that you least expect.  You have to know that in some cases there is nothing you have done or can do to avoid this.  I was reading this this moring and wanted to share with you all.

Haters
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their
time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.

They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever
good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your
blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing
you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be
like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they
have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they
don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you
can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb
(if he / she isn't about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being
in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be
on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still be
unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.
Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at
me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Pass this to all of your family & friends who you know are
not hating on you including the person who sent it to you.

If you don't get it back, maybe you called somebody out!
Don't worry about it, it's not your problem, it's theirs..
Just pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as
yours! Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become
a HATER!

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man
should have to seek Him first to find her.
Maya Angelou


When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism.

            

crystal220
on 1/24/09 4:47 am
i recieved this information in my email from my friend and I thought this was perfectly said.
                                              
                                                          ~NEVER SAY NEVER~

    
ShowStopper ..
on 1/24/09 10:07 am
I have read it before but it really one that I like to read and have to remember. Thx.


When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism.

            

Lena360
on 1/24/09 5:11 am - Mustard Seed, IL


You have me trying to find a Saturday service to go to. I'm ready to get my shout on.


GOD IS AWESOME!!!

His word says it all: 

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.

They that sow in tears shall reap in joy

Keep on Keepin' On,
Lena

It is not the load that breaks you down; it's the way you carry it. -Lena Horne
                        

 

ShowStopper ..
on 1/24/09 10:09 am
Hi Lena, yes we do have to have service several times though the week on some instances. I am always thanking Him. 


When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism.

            

Faith *
on 1/24/09 5:17 am
Thanks for sharing this.  I have most definitely experienced some of the negative responses that are listed.  I thank God that I am strong and can withstand the storm.

People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown

virtly
on 1/24/09 5:52 am - va
RNY on 02/11/04 with
Faith,
I am planning on attending the Essence Festival this summer. I haven't been since Katrina.
Faith *
on 1/24/09 6:23 am

Will you attend all three days?  I have always said that I want to go but have never been. 

People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown

virtly
on 1/24/09 6:35 am - va
RNY on 02/11/04 with
Yep, I will be there for the entire time.
Star Jones
on 1/24/09 9:25 am - National Harbor, MD
I'm thinking about going too. I went in 2004 and had the best time. I went last time with my girls, this time me and hubby might go.

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

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