Get yo azz off my husband....

Madame
on 1/22/09 6:44 am - Oxon Hill, MD

WTF did the wife think a lap dance was?????
Did she not know that is often what happens when one gets a lap dance?

Did she expect him to sit there and not be affected or participate even after she requested that the dancer dance for him?

I think she was wrong ........  but ....you never know what you can handle, when it comes to  intimacy and your mate until you experience it for yourself.  I think she is taking it much to far "Not allowing him to touch her".   He knew it was a lapdance and would not have disrespected his wife.  He propbably thought she was cool with it.  OOOOOPS ~ she confused everybody didn't she.

I'm a regular at the club my husband goes to. He has given me money to see dancers, bought me the ticket to go and is just cool about it.    I have paid dancers to dance for/with him.  I have given him $$$ to give to them.  The only rules we have is that we should never do anything without the other that we would not do with the other there. (does that make sense?) No dance should be danced to completion....if you know what I mean.  

 

Peace & Blessings,   Sharon
6 years and counting
ShowStopper ..
on 1/22/09 6:52 am

She really thought she would be cool until she actually saw his expression.  She is not being hard on him or entirely blaming him, she realize that it was her doing.  But, as you said he could have held back a little. 


When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism.

            

(deactivated member)
on 1/22/09 7:27 am - Georgia Peach, MD
 Madame.
ShowStopper ..
on 1/22/09 7:39 am
Hello Pretty Woman, glad to see you!


When you devote yourself to achieving your goal, you will not be bothered by shallow criticism.

            

Madame
on 1/22/09 12:05 pm - Oxon Hill, MD
  Hey Cookie!!!
Peace & Blessings,   Sharon
6 years and counting
Jus ChanJ N ME
on 1/22/09 6:49 am
Are you kidding me?  How are you going to take your man to a club like that and not allow him to get his shiot off?  That's like him taking you to a fancy restaurant and not allowing you to eat.

That's some bull.  Let him get hot and horny and take your man home and.....well, you know the rest.

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SistahGirl
on 1/22/09 6:55 am - Pueblo, CO
They should have just rented a ***** flick and the wife coulda gave him a lap dance of her own!  IMHO they both crossed the line, but wifey crossed first....



A woman's heart must be so hidden in GOD that a man must first seek GOD in order to find her"    

Trish

MarloT
on 1/22/09 7:27 am
VSG on 12/20/07 with
if that talk didn't include the word boundaries, she's dead ass wrong, if it did, then he is.  that being said if you lead the horse to water, you plumb dumb to be swole cuz he didn't even know he was thirsty before that.  know thy dude well, but know thyself better 
                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

Mrs. Vice Versa
on 1/22/09 7:37 am - Newark, NJ
Short and simple....That's some bullshiot!!

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

(deactivated member)
on 1/22/09 7:47 am - Georgia Peach, MD
Well, tell us how you really feel, babe!


Dang, I miss you!!!!
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