Anotha Question

Dalexis
on 1/19/09 5:11 am - Brooklyn, NY

From what I understand, some of my brothers seem not so much lazy as in really conservative and not willing to show much in the way of imagination. Some guys look at porn and think that is the way to do things, but most porn isn't about pleasing your partner, its about being pleased.

I remember when I was in my early twenties, I read this book called "The Joy of Sex". It was, what they called at the time, a "sexual cookbook". One line stayed in my mind when I read it, though I can't quote it:

It said that to be successful, you have to look at your partner as like a canvass and you are a painter. You can either do childish finger paints or you can produce a work of art; its just a matter of how much time and effort one is willing and able to put into it. That stayed with me in that I look at my partner like a piano. I choose to play a masterpiece rather than just banging on the keys. lol

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

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mscleo
on 1/19/09 5:23 am - WA

Lap Band on 07/30/07

That stayed with me in that I look at my partner like a piano. I choose to play a masterpiece rather than just banging on the keys.

thats hott....

i read that same damn book...lol along with any other book relating to sex and how to...
i'm all about pleasing my partner, and i despise a selfish lover...i have no time, tolerance or patience...i love giving, pleasing and want someone whom feels the same.

i think yr right about no imagination thing....porn is simply for entertainment...i think only Boys look to porn as an instruction manual...men realize every woman comes with her own set of instructions..

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake

Dalexis
on 1/19/09 5:38 am - Brooklyn, NY

RNY on 11/27/06

One just has to know how to read the instructions and not do the cookie-cutter or "one-size-fits-all" method.

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

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mscleo
on 1/19/09 5:45 am - WA

Lap Band on 07/30/07

lol...yes...cause what worked for yr ex might not work for me....every woman wants her man to cater to her and her needs...

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake

(deactivated member)
on 1/19/09 5:57 am

RNY on 05/25/06

Hell yeah give me a dominant partner all day!!

This independant shiot is old!

Dalexis
on 1/19/09 7:34 am - Brooklyn, NY

RNY on 11/27/06

So, Ro,
You want some woman to work you over? Hmmmm?

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

(deactivated member)
on 1/19/09 8:03 am

RNY on 05/25/06

I just a woman that is capable of taking control on every level!

Honestly I wasn't thinking from a sexual perspective when I posed this question... but yawl nassy azzes took it all that way! LMAOOO

mscleo
on 1/19/09 4:25 am - WA

Lap Band on 07/30/07

imma teacher...all day erry day...i love control and i think teaching falls under that catorgory somehow...i love teaching(in all areas).

For me I am sooooo tired of telling folks how to do shiot... I am at a point in my life where I want the hand extended to me...Teach me how to do it!! I want to be the student!

c'mon over...i got a special class just for you...lol

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake