What would you do?????

Kim B.
on 1/18/09 11:36 pm - OH
I was having a discussion with a male friend about cheating.  He stated he would NEVER confess to cheating, even if confronted.  I was like WTF??????  Is there ANY cir****tance that would make you confess?  He said, nope...unless I was actually caught in the act!

Would you confess? 
Have you confessed?  If so, why

My answer....I'm a TERRIBLE liar!  That shiot just requires too much thought in keepng up with the lie.....you gotta keep adding to it....LOL
So, with that said, I would confess if asked.....I would not volunteer the info

I have cheated......long time ago, and was caught    and I did confess.
I also was on the other side of it and my SO was cheating and he confessed to his wife...out of guilt....she had no idea what he was doing!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

ATL Diva 2009
on 1/18/09 11:45 pm - Lawrenceville, GA
I have cheated and admitted to some but not all of it. I have also been cheated on and he only confessed after I told him what he did and he just confirmed the story.

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Kim B.
on 1/18/09 11:47 pm - OH
LMAO @ the partial confession!  I heard that, no need in adding to it!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

Mrs. Vice Versa
on 1/18/09 11:46 pm - Newark, NJ
My momma always said.."Take it to the grave"..and that is EXACTLY what I would do!!

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

Kim B.
on 1/18/09 11:47 pm - OH
Now how did I know that's what you were gonna say!   LOL

I miss you lady!

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

Mrs. Vice Versa
on 1/18/09 11:49 pm - Newark, NJ
...Miss you too Auntie Kim....

"I'm still Too Blessed to be Stressed"
Lap rny...08/22/2005

Reached Goal Prepregnancy...145

Current......165...working back down to my goal weight.

Thank You Lord for ALL of my Blessings!!!!

Dalexis
on 1/18/09 11:48 pm - Brooklyn, NY
When my marriage was just about over, and the soon-to-be-ex wife admitted to having had me be "...followed by a private detective..." (that turned out to be bullchiot. I later found that a "friend" of mine was actually telling her everything I was telling him...another story for another time), I decided, that, hell, "...if you want the truth, here's everything.  I hope you choke on it..." and I told her everything..filled in the details.  Hell, unless she actually caught me in the act, there really was nothing she could do legally (even so, it would have been her word vs. mine). 

So, yes, I told everything.

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

Kim B.
on 1/18/09 11:50 pm - OH
Gotta be careful of those "friends"....SMH

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

Dalexis
on 1/19/09 12:03 am - Brooklyn, NY
I still see him from time to time in that we work in the same company, same building.  There have been times when I wanted to beat his arse, but he's not worth my losing my job.  I probably would have told her everything anyway.  Why not?

People always say they "want the truth.." but can't handle it.  At the time, I told everything because I wanted to hurt her, in retrospect.  In the end, I shouldn't have cheated, but telling her, at the time, was a means of payback, so to speak.

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

Kim B.
on 1/19/09 12:06 am - OH
Oh hell nawwwww...you gotta see him on a regular?
Have you ever said anything to him about it? 
I can see not saying/doing anything while at work...but on the street...that nicca's azz would be mine......

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

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