Attention *****
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
As far as the crap that went down between D and Nate. I am not Nate's babysitter (I say Nate in this instance since clearly he was the one who started it) I cannot control what people say in their reply posts to me. They are grown men and if they want to have a ******g contest over nothing that is their business. I will not take responsibility to what grown men say or do. Yeah BL are probably hot right now. But when aren't they?
You know I love you Ms. Kim and I hope this doesn't influence our future dealings on the board.
The reason I did not mention the other AH callngs was because it was evident to me that there's was the one that was being referred to...like I said, I may be wrong, if I was...my bad.
As for Nate and D....that shiot had nothing to do with your post...per se....my point was that it would not have even taken place if it weren't for this post. I know you have nothing to do with what comes out of their fingers. I could care less about them and their ******g contest. There's no need for you to take any responsibilty for that.
My whole point was that whenever anyone questions or does not like something that is said, go to that person. We have had this 'what is an AH question a few times here lately. We all know what they are and some of us know who they are (or at least who we define as an AH) so why ask it again, knowing what it will bring?
Everyone talks about the drama and such on the board, but look at what it brings...pages of he said, she said, lurkers coming out of the woodwork...Sheesh
As for our dealings, Andrea, I hope you know that nothing on this board can sway how I feel about anyone. ESPECIALLY when the shiot don't even involve me. LOL
It just aint that serious to me.
I guess I'm still in that mushy, kumbaya state since I received so much love from EVERYONE, I just want everyone to get along and play nice....feel me?
So sorry if I ruffled any feathers, I just really don't like arguing...it's the Libra in me.
The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey
It could/should have just stayed between the two of them. Now it has morphed into this long, drawn out post that started a whole other mini scene...and the bad part about it, the real meaning of why Ro said whatever the hell she said to Miranda has not been found....
This is a prime example of how shiot gets started. People, this is not rocket science. If someone says something to you and you don't understand why...ask them. Did this REALLY have to be carried over into today?
Now the BL is probably lit up, not only about the AH stuff, but now we gotta add to the mix this shiot between Dalexis and Nate....Sheesh....GROW THE ***** UP ALREADY!
Disclaimer: I am not taking sides, I am not jocking Ro, I am not trying to start anything with Miranda or Andrea...as a matter of fact, I like all those involved. I just hate to see shiot get started when it all could have been squashed between the two parties involved.
Yes, the Peacemaker is back in the house!
*****Kim drops the mic and leaves for her follow up appointment. I will be back to answer any replies I may or may not get regarding this post.
I asked her last night what the hell she was talking about ..her answer......all your posts are about you, it's always about you isn't it....I replied and said is that not what posts r all about, I reply to others posts all the time...so I had now idea what the F&*K she was talking about...I have no problems asking anyone what they meant by anything...TRUST ME. It's funny cus I was'nt an attention ***** when I sent my condolences about her granddaughter dying. I don't have any dealings with her, I may have spoken to her maybe 3 or 4 times beteewn posts. She said some kind words about the passing of my uncle and that was about it. I don't like beat around the bushers if you wanna ask me something SPIT IT THE HELL out....cause I sure as hell will ask if I want to know...I addressed the issue last night, but I just received a PASSIVE_aggressive responses so I was like #uck it.
Kim I never though you were taking sides you just said how you felt u are entittled to it as am I and anyone else here....no love lost ur still COOL in my book...u speak your mind
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!
Okay so I was going to leave this bullshiot alllll to the side BUT when you bring my Casey into all this mess right here you really got me feeling some type of way!!!
WTF like you sending me your condolences, was doing me a favor???...mofo pleaseeeeeeeeee.
Did you really need to go there?? REALLY??? I don't need your ******' sympathy/condolences biotch
I am really trippin right now off the fact that you used my grand daugher's passing as an example for your antics... dayummmmm..you can **** the **** off brownie!!
Andddd for the record mofo we had dealings on the R&R board prior to BAF!
Okay so I was going to leave this bullshiot alllll to the side BUT when you bring my Casey into all this mess right here you really got me feeling some type of way!!!
WTF like you sending me your condolences, was doing me a favor???...mofo pleaseeeeeeeeee.
Did you really need to go there?? REALLY??? I don't need your ******' sympathy/condolences biotch
I am really trippin right now off the fact that you used my grand daugher's passing as an example for your antics... dayummmmm..you can **** the **** off brownie!!
Andddd for the record mofo we had dealings on the R&R board prior to BAF!
First off RORO don't play the sympathy card with ME....u know full well what I meant when I said I sent my condolences to you and yours as you did mine. YOU are old enough to read exactly what I said! No one is doing you *** ing favor at all..trust and believe sweetheart it anit that type of party. I don't have any antics and if I did you and everyone else would know about them! I don't give **** if you were on this board since 1994 you don't run ****yeah I said it YOU DON"T RUN ****u think u do but you don't... ur're the type of ***** that think people are supposed to cower under you...sorry sweetie I ANIT THAT *****
Everyone has there own perceptions of people up here...me included. I don't really give **** what backlines were burning up about me cause like the world..the more people that talk about you means YOUR GIVING ME FREE AIRTIME.
You anit do **** on the R AND R board but try to cyber jump me like the rest of them crazy MOFO's over there..but if you want to play like you were Captain SAVE A HO....please feel free to wear the cape! I call them like I see them if you don't like that that tough **** You are one of the biggest mess starters here always saying some passive aggressive smart **** so MOFO's don't know if you're playin or not..I've read your book and watched your plays and you do some SHEISTY ****
I will end this by saying everything I said to your about your granddaughter was GENUINE...I don't wish death on anyone, nor do I write **** that I don't back up. If your not women enough to admit that then so be it. No sleep lost over here
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!
Kim,
To be fair, I wasn't speaking to him initally and told him to stop. Frankly, I took the first insult and said nothing. That I was speaking to someone else on the bl had nothing to do with anyone else.
Yes, I could have ignored him again, but how often do you have to ignore childish prattle before you react? To be sure, I could have cursed him out like so many other things have happened in and out of cyberland, but that's not my style. I said my piece and left it like that.
I'm done.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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But seriously, Nate should not have commented about your actions on the board or on the BL (it had nothing to do with him) and the referrence to him and his size and the skinny jeans (by others too) was a little below the belt. JMO
It's all good, it's over and I'm done too!
The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey