BAF Members: To The Board Room Pronto! (Seriously Long)

Dalexis
on 1/13/09 11:48 pm, edited 1/13/09 11:59 pm - Brooklyn, NY
I know I may catch hell for this, but, hell, it won't be the first time.  Nor, probably the last.

I have to admit I've stop posting as much as I had previously.   The bullshiot I had gotten into previously had nothing to do with it.  From my own personal p.o.v, it has more to do with the fact that a lot of the topics coming down the pike these days don't really pertain to my interests enough to engage in conversation. 

When it comes to encouragement and sharing info, I am with that.  However, when it turns into an online version of "The View" or that old BET show, "Oh, Drama!", that's when I close up my piano case, say "Time to go!" and I'm out. 

For example, the other day, someone put up a post wondering why people come post here.  It turned into a knock of people who come here only for the "look at me" pics, or to be prayed for, or whatever.  To me, it seems, like in the 3-D world, organizations have purposes.  If someone wants to come in for a pat on the back or a prayer or to relate an experience...then drop back into lurk mode, isn't that their prerrogative? 

Now, I guess there are a clear lack of bodies in here, but its like any other site I've ever been on.  People come and people go.  As with the wonderful world of 3-D, people come and go for a reason, a season or a lifetime. 

For myself, I am more that willing and happy to share encouragement and information based on my own personal experiences, whether its weightloss or relationships or with life in general.  I have no problem with that, as some can attest. 

Is there something that can be done to facilitate more positive output here?  I think there can be.  I, myself, can probably be more receptive to newbies and their struggles, trials and triumphs. 

eta: hey, i could get used to writing in invisible ink where only I can see what I wrote. LOL.

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 1/14/09 12:01 am
Ok - how you gon refer to me as 'someone' when talking about MY post????  LOL!!!!!

I don't think folk were 'knocked' - just point made about you can't just come in to TAKE and not GIVE support - true - it's thier perogative - technically you it's your perogative to come on here and cuss a mofo out once a day...... don't make it the right thing OR a good look.......

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Dalexis
on 1/14/09 12:03 am - Brooklyn, NY
Oh, "Someone"  (hey, at the time I wrote this post, I forgot it was you...sue me. lol), some ppl WERE knocked, Trina.  LOL.

I don't knock anyone for coming in and cussin' a mofo out... it just gets boring after a while. That's all. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 1/14/09 12:05 am
  you know I be messin wit you, man!  we cooler than a fan!!!!!

Cussin a mofo.... boring????

Sacre Bleu!!!!  Jamais!!!!! 

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Dalexis
on 1/14/09 12:13 am - Brooklyn, NY
Yup. boring.  if you see the same thang err' day, all day.  sheesh. lol.  Yeah, Trina.  We're cool. I'd hug you, but I don't hug Thugs. LOL

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 1/14/09 12:18 am
Dats right!!!!  Back up playa!!!  THUGS is HARD - we don't do AFFECTION and shiot!!!!!

  **stands tall, chin up** 

LOL!!!

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Kim B.
on 1/14/09 12:35 am - OH
I was one on that post who commented about those who come on BAF only to show pics and get pats on the back.  Yes, it is there perogative...but my point is, don't get an attitude when you don't get the amount of response you want and go stomping away pissed off and bad mouthing BAF.  I see those posts, and depending on who it is, I may respond and I may not....that's my perogative.

Same goes for those who stay away and come back when they need advice.  I may respond to some, but to be honest, if you are a repeat offender....one who comes back, gets the advice, then disappears AGAIN and continuously does this, I'm not gonna keep responding. 

JMO

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey

    

MrBaker870
on 1/14/09 12:45 am - Little Rock, AR
I have to admit I've stop posting as much as I had previously.   The bullshiot I had gotten into previously had nothing to do with it.  From my own personal p.o.v, it has more to do with the fact that a lot of the topics coming down the pike these days don't really pertain to my interests enough to engage in conversation. 


This is where I disagree w/ you bruh...I think we should still be grounded enough to laugh about b/s and also high enough to talk about something good. Feel me? I think its all apart of the big picture some topics might be about a bunch of b/s however I think its still important to put your .02 cents in. Thats what makes the board POP and interesting. So don't be so damn high and mighty to get down and talk w/ us ignant folkz...might have something good to tell ya bruh...

The few things i've learned in life that has stuck with me have come from a crackhead, a drunk and a gambling addict.

Don't trust no body with your money, liquor and don't let any old fool cut your grass....
Smile for me.........
Dalexis
on 1/14/09 1:19 am - Brooklyn, NY
You are well within your rights to disagree...as do I. 

As for me being high and mighty, that ain't got **** to do with anything, bruh.  Bottom line, just cuz I didn't come in with a bullshyt "a woman with three partners is a ho'.." rule knowing your ass was a virgin when you said it doesn't make me high and mighty. 

Just because I voice that I DO find some of what does go on both here AND in real , 3-D life and choose not to get involved doesn't make me holier than thou or whatever you'd like to term it. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

MrBaker870
on 1/14/09 3:12 am - Little Rock, AR

Hold on patna.....take a lil bass out ya voice when you typing at me BRUH.......i got gas money and it can go down, so please believe me when I tell you I was joking w/ ya sensitive a$$....

Now my three rule was a joke....I don't need you or anyone else to EVER agree w/ anything I say b/c I stand on my OWN 2 and I don't need no co-signers b/c mine is straight.

I'm not going to even comment on the virgin thing......

 

Smile for me.........
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