BAF Members: To The Board Room Pronto! (Seriously Long)
There are non BAFer or OHers who lurk and can gain access to your pics....your ****t be out in your hometown and your momma be calling you and your like WTF?!
Then the BAFers who cannot stand your asse all up on your schitt....copying and pasting.
My profile is not locked to friends only to discourage anyone...it's for my OWN personal benefit!
I'm real and I don't have time for fake asse mfers reading and viewing my schitt.
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
-
Drama. There is too much drama on the board. I no longer get anything from it.
there is a lot of drama..and actually a lot of it is funny to me..however i am at work during the day and i had to look at myself and see how much time i was puttin in on the board and just had to cut ya'll off..it wasn't 100% due to the drama but part of it was...
- I’ve lost weight, and I am living my life now. I have no time for the board
heck i've lost weight and gained weight..the gaining part is the worse..i just dont have time for the board it has nothing to do with me having lost the weight..if anything i need to be on the board seeking the support and guidance that i didn't take/get when i was on the board daily in the midst of the drama..lol
- Beef. I was involved in some mess…so I am done with the board
the only beef that i can even remember..well Dedee was mean to me way in the beginning like back in 04 but i dont remember exactly what it was and she dont remember it at all..but as for Beef..the only beef that i had that kind of changed my view of the board was when Donnie Boy started a thread about something that i did..now i dont have a problem with anyone disagreeing with anything that i have said or done..that is not an issue for me..but what is an issue for me is i am my own woman..i draw whatever attention to myself that i want, need, or desire..i dont ask for anyone to help me draw attention to myself..nor do i appreciate or like anyone drawing attention to me..
- I am still here, but I provide support behind the scenes.
i send PM's to people..if i see a thread about WLS or anything and I have an opinion or an example that i want to share then i do..
- I’ve gained weight and I don’t want people to know.
i have gained weight and its not something that i can hide from people..thats kind of like people who get pregnant and dont want to tell people..DUH you got a baby in yo stomach and everybody can see it what you trying to hide..lol..heck you can look at my pictures and see that i have gained weight...its a struggle i think we to often go into this journey thinking we will never have a weight problem again..so i dont hide my weight gain..i'm not happy with it..but it is what it is..and i have no one to blame but myself..i say to all the nubies that i have sent a PM to..dont take the honeymoon for granted..learn from it..just cause you loose 5lb every week now dont mean that 3 years out you will be able to do that..heck eating that chili dog will not help you with loosing 5lbs a week..lol
- My job blocked BAF, so I can’t access it during the day.
no they haven't blocked it..but my son gave me the secret to getting to places that are blocked..its listed below..so if you blocked from anywhere go to these sites and you should be able to get there...
englishtunnel.com............. ptunnel.com..............
You better come around more often man! ~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
how's your daughter doing? Haven't seen her on the board in ages. 
on 1/14/09 6:10 am - Milwaukee, WI
My mom told me you were asking about me so I stopped through.
http://s284.photobucket.com/albums/ll35/Kats_Meow2U/ME/
Now you KNOW, me and you ain't never had no disagreement and I KNOW I was never mean to you.....I 'memba errybody I done cyber fought and erry meany me! Gotta keep up with my TKO
Respond, heffa, ~roll eyes~ don't PM me ~smooches~
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
