OT: Arranged marriage - could you do it?

Nawl, I missed that post.

This new J keeps me off the boards pretty much.

lemme see whats happening Sat, I feel like the wife has me commited to something already. - I'll let you know

*** hi-jacking your post to talk about you***


Your **go hard** card has been temporry pulled until you can show me that you deserve to get it back, check pm for details on how I caught you slipping on another board

  Chile - that's what I get for 'visiting' - know how you go to other folks home and get all wide eyed looking at they shiot - thinking they big screen is all fly but don't see the pile of DUST behind that mofo????

that's EXACTLY what I did!!!!!!  I soooo know better than that crap!!!!  But gimme my card back cause I ain't leaving my 'home' no more!!!!!!!  LOL

I would do an arranged marriage.  But it has to be done by someone I trust to make the match.  My mother would have been able to do it because she had a much better eye than I did when it came to men.  I am married and before I got married I did consider hiring a matchmaker.  In the end I met my husband through a personal ad in the newspaper.  That whole thing was weird, I met some of the most gorgeous men I've ever seen or they were butt ugly, there was no in between. 

No I couldn't do an arranged marriage!  When I think of arranged marriages I think of Celie and Mister from the Color Purple.   I don't want to be forced to love someone and forced to have sex; that's not cool. 

Ionknow.... that forced sex thing might be kinda hot.......

So you don't want him to get on top of you and do his business??

i would let my momma arrange a marriage for me...LOL.  (i trust her judgement...lol)

I don't let my mama chose my SANDWICH at a deli!!!!!!!  LOL

you LUB yo mama for REAL!!!!! 

Why the hell not?  We need to drop the notion of romantic love and approach marriage as a contractual agreement.  What are we seeking anyway?  Security? Protection?  Partnership?  Hell, we can get that with a general partnership.