In replying to TAW, I just realized...

<<<<<----this heffa aint no damn spring chicken either 

My maximum age difference on how much older than me I would go has always been around 10 years, 12 max.  I just realized that could put a potential mate at around 50!!  Not that 50 is old and decrepit, but I'm just not ready to wrap my mind around being in that dating pool.

QOD---how old would you go?  If everything was in order, but the fact that he/she was old (by whatever your standards are)  just kind of turned your stomach...could you really go there?  Could you really have a relationship with that person-no cheating with a young chippie on the side-just you and him/her?

I am 35 and I have been with Phil for 15 years. He is almost 9 years my senior.

If schitt happened and he left me or something, I would never do the senior thing again....IF I ever decided to have a relationship, Imma go Demi Moore on yawl asse!

I would agree with that if the next generation wasn't runnin around "supermaning hoes"  Could you imagine dating someone about 12 years younger than you right now? 

I was 24.....he was 51. His son was a year older than me.

<------AND WAS WHOOPED!!!!! Talk about puttin in work. I didn't see any blue pills, but wouldn't have been shoked if I did the way that bama threw down!!!

Whew....Is it hot in here????

just fassssssssssss!

i am 33 - my 'cut off' is 45.  BF will be 40 in April.........

my max is 10 years...............my junior, I dont do old. (see my reply to #1MM why I can't, it is a mental thing.

I'm with you.  I'm being real generous with my range, and it's definitely NOT what I desire, but I wouldn't discount someone say 45 or so.

depends on what kinda older he is - when sean connery was 60 i was lookin at him kinda

my steady is 9.5 years older than i and that's my limit (ONLY because he's a denzel 50 not a mr. roper 50).  

Well, my cutoff  WAS no more than 10 years older, but that's been blown out of the water, lol.  I'm 29 and Dwayne is 45.