Gold-digger? What is your opinion?

You have a valid point and i agree.....if she wasn't there from jump then HELL NO!!!......u don't deserve HALF!!!............i don't know their particular history so i based my response off of what i do know......i personally know several females in her position but they were there from the start.....when the brotha was right out of college goin' into the professional sports arena.....i know their side of it and if it ever came down to them being divorced (one is goin' thru some stuff now).....there's no way in hell she(they) shouldn't get half if not more......they've endured the cheating (yall know it happens), lying, held down a 3 million dollar household (having a nanny ain't all it's cracked up to be), being his support when he's not getting playin' time (in other words therapist) or their threatening to trade him, dealing w/his family when they always calling for money (and u know they don't like ur azz) because they can't get in touch w/him, etc......these are some of the issues that the wives deal w/that never make the news and can never be equated on a monetary value.....again JMO

Girl U R giving her a whole lot of credit. They might have paid someone to do all that. Rich people often pay someome to pay thier bills and take care of thier children. Even cook and clean thier homes. This women may have only laid up with him and spent money.

She doesn't didn't earn it. She had the life style because she was with him. Now she aint. She should enjoy the money she got . That is a lot and she can live better than most on it without working. I also believe that  if the roles were reversed the man doesn't deserve  her money either.

I hear you Special! I am taking in what everyone is sayin. With the way the economy is she should thank God for what she has as many people are losing what they have.

Sheree is not going to win her case.  She's got a lot of things against her.  First her age puts her in the position to go to school to learn how to do something.  Then the length of their marriage has an impact.  From what I understand is that in situations like hers they only give alimony for half the length of the marriage.  If they were married 10 years then she would get alimony for 5 years.... that's the reason why so many women go for broke when it comes to child support.  There is the potential to get more out of that than the alimony.  I think being on TV is going to hurt her case.  If they are really passing her off as illiterate and then they see her spending money like water they may appoint her a guardian to handle her affairs and control her spending... How about a budget since she publicly said she has no budget.  Why give money to someone who can't handle it?

Don't get this wrong if you have to reread it do.
But Sharee was a stupid fool for putting herself out there.
My HB and I Had and agreement I stay home and raise the kids and he worked that what he wanted. I could have had a just right next to him but that not what he wanted.(there many of days I wish I would have over ruled that contract but that's water under the bridge)  So after the girls was gone the contract didn't changed I didn't go to a job . By then I had several illness that stopped me from being in the job force. BUT DOING THE YEARS I DID DO MY SHARED OF BRING IN THE MONEY I WAS A SEAMTRESS FOR OVER 30 YRS. BRINGING IN OVER 300.00 TO 150.00 A WEEK SOMETIMES. Keeping baby in daycare as I work even a night,
Now I don't won't to work I'm not going to work. Huh My after I get settled in a new home just maybe I'll get back to my seamstress job are teachering seamstress they have taken it out of many schools. No gold digger.  She needed to keep her mouth shut. Down left the the right hand know what the left hand is doning. And she put this out on TV DUMB BROAD.

I do no****ch those reality shows and am not familiar with the reasons for the divorce, however, if she gave up her "life" to help him advance his career and he tossed her aside without making every effort to work it out (I do not believe in divorce) then she should be adequately compensated so that she can live the lifestyle she has grown accustomed too..

That is not being a gold digger.  That is looking out for one's self. 

I say go to spiritual counseling as long as it takes and work it out ...  People do not believe in working at relationships anymore.  It required a LOT of hard work and compromise....  No one wants to put in the work... I look at my great grandparents who were married for 75 yrs and my grandparents who were married over 55 years...   It can be done, but if God is not in the middle, it will not...


Valerie ~

Valerie, I hear ya! The most important aspect of a relationship is communication however I find it very hard to stay in a relationship when one person is communicating more than the other.

i aint sayin she a gold digger. but she aint messin wit no broke...broke...broke...

Listen out "Ole Hen Cluck'n"  They were married for 3 years and then seperated.  For  3 years of work girl  doing ral good!  I just don't think she changed diapers, did laundry, dishes & cooked like I did at three years.  Now working on year 32 did 20 with him as an active duty Marine, talk about hold'n it together!!!!  If she was so busy workn so hard as a wife and mom she won't have had time to get used to no "lifestyle" but hard work!!!  Why can't she take what she has already gained, (musta been some help to her family too), what she got in the settlement, and what she gonna get for the interviews and the show, and leave the damn man alone.

I would offer her the opprotunity to stand in his shoes for 15 minuets (football time), do his job and if she pulls it off just once, give her what she wants