WTF?!?

Okay, so I've been "kickin it" with this one male for a minute and all of a sudden he quit calling, texting, emailing, etc...Well he text me "Happy New Years" for New Years out of the blue. So I replied " you disappear on a female and then have the nerve to wish her a Happy New Years?!" and this was his reply "It wasn't you, ur wonderful. The p*@%# is great, but the housekeeping I can't deal with". WTF???? Is he implying that I'm a dirty female?

Now, let me explain a little something...my townhouse is up for sale so I HAVE to keep it "show ready" at all times. Never had one realtor complaint and/or bad comment. What in the hell does he mean? Now, please don't call me naive (cause I do tend to be at times, dating is new for me) but he is blowing shiot up my @ss, right??

Maybe he doesn't like a bu****hink the housekeeping he's referring to is your vajajay.

But fa real....why did you even respond back to him on that generic ass text? After not talking to him for a while his number woulda been "Do Not Answer" anyway.

Ok, you got a point with that one. I should not have even given it a second thought...That was the short version, he was "deleted" and since I didn't have his number memorized I made the mistake of asking who it was and then he told me it was him. ugh....live and learn. I'm still learning.

"Maybe he doesn't like a bu****hink the housekeeping he's referring to is your vajajay"

vajayjay is on point though...I made a habit of keeping everything up especially with feeling like I "HAD" to with being a big girl and all...hmmm, that does give me something else to think about though...

thanks!

Girl I wouldn't give it any more thought. Who da hell knows what he's talkin bout. I agree with Nikki. If it's driving you crazy ask.....if he's not a punk he'll tell you, if he is he'll lie and just tell you anything. At the end of the day you still gonna be questioning yourself. Just do you and keep it moving.

You replied to his Happy New Year's message send him another message and ask him what he mean; so you don't have to second guess.  If you don't want to know move on!  NEXT!!!

Girl don't even sweat it! We're both adults if you had an issue about me then you should have brought it to my attention while we were talking. Now, you cut off all communication and then want to tell me that NOW. WTFE(What The F Ever)

I agree! It's not that serious for me to call and/or text to ask him to explain. I just got that text today so I was curious...oh, well. I didn't date a whole lot and now I got my sister telling me that "you gotta get out there girl!" I mean, seriously it's all new for me...moving on....

And I could be even more naive than Shani...but I think his intent with the "housekeeping" reference meant you were too high maintenance for him.  I could be wrong....but that was my initial thought when I read it.   As much as we don't like to admit it....we know our flaws.  So, are you high maintenance?

However, I do agree with Shani...that was a generic text.  He probably failed to remove your number from his contacts and just blasted everyone a New Years message. 

If I were you, I wouldn't waste too much energy picking apart something said from someone I briefly kicked it with.  While I would memory bank his opinion....I wouldn't give it that much weight.

Dang Inspire, you are right on target! THANK YOU!! I do not consider myself "high maintenance", however I DO have high expactations of my friedns and people I date. Nothing out of the ordinary though. Respect self and me, be employed, either have you together or be working on you...etc. But I will say that he would constantly remind me of how "different" I was of any of the females he's dated...hmmmm. Thanks again! 

It's so funny how people assume that you should have lower expectations just because...