What are you NOT bringing into 2009!!!
Now MACK.....
You KNOW I'm going to try my best to make sure you adhere to that last one, right?
I mean, you DO know that, right?
LOL!!
Happy New Year!!
1.) The BACKLINES have backlines. Watch what you say and more importantly WHO YOU SAY IT TO!! 2.) There are NO secrets on BAF. DON'T BE FOOLED!!
3.) The person who says: "I'm going to tell you something, but you can't tell anyone." has already TOLD 50 other people!
No--this isn't from experience--well, not MINE anyway!
Hero!!!! you's a grumpy ole mofo in the morning - but you be right on TIME!!!! LOL. Leave it to you to be the ONE person to really read what I said and know what it means........ I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price....... 
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Everybody i****tin on me but just to be sure and so I get to see it written; my list begins as such.
1. I have got to learn to live my life. I care so much for everyone else and not enuf for myself.
2. No more doubting, I am similar to MM, there ain't much I tried that I haven't been good at so that means that God has my back; so it is time to trust in His Word and in His actions.
3. Financially I give more than I can afford to; to folks that don't deserve it. I do it emotionally too. I care too much what people think and not enough about what I think of myself.
4. Emotional Health. I vow to be good to my body in 2009 and I am going to be good to my psychie. I am going to do and say what I know is right. I am going to love those who know how to receive it and have the generosity to return it. For all others I will pray but I will no longer invest in their spirits. That is their job and their relationship with the Lord.
5. I am going to handle my business. I have this ostrich in the sand deal going on sometimes and I refuse to do that anylonger. It is about time I stand up for myself and take care of myself in all avenues.
6. I am going to love my body enough to cheri**** nuture it, feed it right and exercise it. It is about time my mouth stopped moving and my booty started moving! This weight issues are history; I am going to work my body and where it chooses to land I am going to embrace it. If I have to see every counselor in the city to get my head straight then that is what I am going to do. It is about time I put my hostile relationship with my body and my weight to rest.
Everybody i****tin on me but just to be sure and so I get to see it written; my list begins as such.
1. I have got to learn to live my life. I care so much for everyone else and not enuf for myself.
2. No more doubting, I am similar to MM, there ain't much I tried that I haven't been good at so that means that God has my back; so it is time to trust in His Word and in His actions.
3. Financially I give more than I can afford to; to folks that don't deserve it. I do it emotionally too. I care too much what people think and not enough about what I think of myself.
4. Emotional Health. I vow to be good to my body in 2009 and I am going to be good to my psychie. I am going to do and say what I know is right. I am going to love those who know how to receive it and have the generosity to return it. For all others I will pray but I will no longer invest in their spirits. That is their job and their relationship with the Lord.
5. I am going to handle my business. I have this ostrich in the sand deal going on sometimes and I refuse to do that anylonger. It is about time I stand up for myself and take care of myself in all avenues.
6. I am going to love my body enough to cheri**** nuture it, feed it right and exercise it. It is about time my mouth stopped moving and my booty started moving! This weight issues are history; I am going to work my body and where it chooses to land I am going to embrace it. If I have to see every counselor in the city to get my head straight then that is what I am going to do. It is about time I put my hostile relationship with my body and my weight to rest.
Good luck to you ma!!!! I am so loving this list. Happy New Year!!!
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
1 - Fear. I have yet to fail - and God has always delivered me. It's time to stop TRIPPIN and start TRUSTING. HE has got this!!!!
2 - Lack of self love. (yes - even me) I have GOT to stop doubting that I DESERVE the absolute BEST and should EVER settle........
3 - Too much thinking, not enough living. I tend to overthink things and get so caught up in the 'what ifs' I can live the 'RIGHT NOWs'
4 - Worry. Worry about what others are thinking, what others' opinions are of me, what others see in/about me....... I have GOT to start making sure MY opinion is what really counts!!!
That's MY list!!!!!
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
You have definately hit the nail on the head with #2!!! I'm taking a NEW ME into 2009. I am tired of being everybody's "go to" girl. I rarely get phone calls from family and friends who genuinely want to know how I'm doing.
I get "can you do this or that for me, can you give me directions, can you type this, write this, find this????" and the list goes on and on.
The reason that I'm not closer to my goal is that I have ALWAYS put others before my self. I have had ENOUGH!!! Thank you Brenda!!!!!
~Telaya~
Your post sounds like I could have written it. I go throught the same thing with family and friends.
2009 is definately going t be different!
Karen
Karen,
We got this!!!!!! Heres to a 2009 where WE are are own focus!!!!
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
