I Don't Want To Go Home For Christmas Next Week

Yeah! it's me girl back on the board during Christmas break.  We are so close to each other -- we are going to have to meet soon!

Girl my hubby is still talking about that black dress and so is his co-workers. lol They told him that he better not slip up because I was too fine for him. hahaha  They were not saying that when I was 355 lbs.

Mrs. Kathleen, I know that you understand about the alzheimers and there are others on BAF that understand as well. Congrats on the new grandbaby coming.

It's not about the gifts, I think that I'm using that as an excuse not to deal with my parents' situation. I'll be okay and I do enjoy telling stories about our childhood.

neenaj, I think I'm going to ttaa get ke Dedee I idea and get the kid to right their favorite thoughts about Grandma,grandpma favorite time they remember.  My daughter remember her pony
ride on my dad's legs.TO ALL OF YOU WHO IS DEALING WITH SICKNESS AND ILLNESS MY GOD BRING YOU THRU THE HOLIDAYS.

~smooches~ enjoy every moment...good, bad, happy, sad ~embrace them~

Girl just let it all out -- sometimes you just need to vent.  You can only do what you can do.  If you can, just go on a be with your family.  Even thought things may not be the way the use to be, you will be around people that you love and those who love you.

Karen

I am not skipping over your post honey I understand!  Dont worry about nothing my kids so spoiled it is crazy.  So word to the wise to your kids they should be thankful for what they are getting cause some are not getting anything!  That is what I have been telling mine lately.  I am thinking about making them volunteer on Christmas morning. I understand about the family thing.  My mom's side of the family does that alot at family reunions. They say they are providing the meats and then when the function comes about they bring some mess!  Then my momma have to pick up the pieces. Family something else huh? 

Well dont feel like you are alone.  I have a sorry azz brother in law in my house that wont leave because I inherited my house and he is in the trust until me and my husband sell the house (which I am looking at new houses now!) not only do he live with us but bring women in and out of our house.  Georgia law states we cannot do nothing about it due to he has interest in the property until we sell it. So I have to deal with this during christmas.

Also my husband is driving me crazy with his baby mama drama it is always something with him and her.  She just used and abuse my husband when they were together and she is still trying to my husband wont put his foot down and allows her to make him jump through hoops and I have to be the punching bag so to speak for all there issues and on top of all that he has issues with getting close to my son because his daughters dont live with us.  When I talk about it he say it is my fault he cant get close because I am so defensive and I tell him I have to be defensive if my son's upbringing is not in your best interest.  I married my husband because I love him and how he treats me but sometimes I wonder if our kids is going to break the marriage up because my child is more important to me right now. I try to keep the family together and make it equal with our children but my husband is not equal this is very hard for me.

Ok now I have vented also!